I started using Badoo (one of those social networks that is quite ambigious in whether it’s actually a social network or an online dating site for those of you don’t know) to see if I could pipeline some Europeans for the summer trip me and Bromigo Jimmy are going to embark on soon. It has one of those ‘Encounters’ sections, where you see pictures and click ‘Yes’, ‘Maybe’ or ‘No’ on whether you would like to meet the person. I noticed I had a quite a few girls click ‘yes’ on the Badoo site and took a look and found around 20 girls in the London area. I’d seen the RVF guys and Bromigo Matt have some success from online trysts so thought I’d go through and see if I fancied any of these. I hit ‘Maybe’ on around 5, the rest were fatties and fuglies who I was not going to waste any time on.
A lot’s made of body language, and I fully agree that it’s one of the most fundamental things to being successful with pulling girls whether on the street or in a bar.
When talking to a girl, you don’t want to appear thirsty. You don’t want to come across as if you don’t get much female attention, even if it’s true, and you don’t want to show the girl that you’re latching onto her for as long as possible as you don’t know when the next girl is going to come along and chat to you.
Most guys are like fat women when having sex. They give it their all, absolutely 100%, in the hopes of keeping that person around for some more or to come back. They pull out all the stops trying to make girls laugh thinking that’s the way into their bed, they will happily climb over their mates they’ve known for years to make themselves appear as the ringleader and they’ll throw all dignity out of the window in their efforts to appease the girl.
This is how oneitis starts, this is how “creepy” guys lurking around girls they’ve failed with will roll and this is how they all end up in their own beds wanking themselves off over the girl they “almost” got with that night. [Read more…]
I’ve seen a lot of discussion around the internet on whether Game influences Sales, or Sales influences Game.
As someone who’s been involved in both, I can quite comfortably say that Game has been influenced by Sales. Every principle I ever learned whilst being a door-to-door salesman when I was 19 has shown its head ever since I first started in Game.
Perhaps this is why I’ve been able to pick things up so easily after being used to cold sales, handling rejections, recognising buying signs, building and stacking in conversation, motivation, selling to groups, pitching, projecting, thinking on my feet and closing.
So far this year, I’ve had sex with 4 English girls, 3 foreign girls, and have had a couple of near-hits with 3 others. I’ve been able to break down their last minute resistance, I’ve charmed them so they haven’t even given a second thought as to whether what they’re doing is right or wrong, I’ve made them chase me and I’ve even held out myself until the timing and logistics was right (this accounts for some of the near-hits that I’ve missed out on so far).
The most trouble I’ve had is with the English girls. I’ve written down a couple of my encounters so far this year and including the near-hits, I’ve been with 5 English girls and 5 foreigners this year which makes for a nice healthy, even number. shaving
The foreigners have [Read more…]
The Art of Persuasion continuing on from the third post I made the other day, using the art of rhetoric within the art of persuasion. We are now on the third element, we’ve already discussed Pathos and Logos, now we have Ethos. Ethos is persuasion in argument by character. It can be the use of your reputation or somebody else’s as the basis for that argument. Ethos belongs to the audience therefore it is the audience that decides the ethos of the speaker/orator. This is the most important out of the three according to Aristotle and the most appealing, though a master orator would use all three.
The Epiphany Girl – Some average men will have one of these, and all beta-turned-players will definitely have had one of these. I, of course, have had one.
Back in August last year, after a couple of months of learning game and improving myself as a man, I met my epiphany girl. I didn’t know it at the time but this girl would shape my future in a massive way for the better. And no, this isn’t some lovey dovey I’m so glad to have met her bullshit post; I took the red pill and she was the water I washed it down with, so to speak.
Bojangles was seeing an Italian girl at the time and her mate was coming to London for a week, and we’d said we were going to go out as a group when she got here.
The Art of Persuasion continuing on from the second post I made the other day, using the art of rhetoric within the art of persuasion. I wrote about the elements Logos, which is argument by logic. I’m going to continue on that with the final part of Logos and persuasion using Logos which is Logical Fallacies.
You need to be able to detect these whilst engaged in the art of rhetoric especially when they are being used in persuasion as a tactic against you. Of course you could also use them yourself.
We’ll start with Bad Proof, the commonplace or principle of the argument is wrong or the example used it really bad. [Read more…]
The Art of Persuasion continuing on from the first post I made the other day, using the art of rhetoric within the art of persuasion. I wrote about the elements behind Pathos which is argument by emotion. Today I’m moving on to Logos, which is argument by logic. All argument should not be dictated by logic, as I’m sure many of you know from many an argument in the past you’ve had with family or in particular women, logic will never be your friend and will always see a rising anger in those who you are discussing with.
Deduction: You want to start with your proof and work towards the conclusion, the tools to enable you to do this part of Logos are such: [Read more…]
This post on Persuasion is based on the art of rhetoric, it’s a bit different from what we Bromigos normally post about but something that’s helpful like Game in all aspects of life. I’ve read up quite a bit on rhetoric over the past few months from figures such as Aristotle, Cicero, Lincoln, Eminem and the Monty Python gang, I’m going to explore this in a few posts about Persuasion over the next week or so.
Rhetoric is the art of influence, friendship and eloquence of ready wit and irrefutable logic. Whether you sense it or not, argument surrounds you. It plays with your emotions, changes your attitude, talks you into a decision, and goads you to buy things. Argument lies behind political labeling, advertising, jargon, voices, gestures, and guilt trips; it forms a real-life Matrix, the supreme software that drives our social lives. And rhetoric serves as an argument’s decoder. John Heinrichs
Your Tube carriage, yes that grand great method of venturing around good old London town. Bromigo Bojangles here again and he knows exactly the type of people that you will encounter on your train. The tube is a London landmark but also is overcrowded and full of the wonders of mankind.
The Listen-to-My-Shit Tube Traveller
‘Yes blud, I is banging the latest drake, I finks u manz needs to hearz this shit’. The degenerates of the human race wearing Dr Dre beats and deafening commuters around them [Read more…]