When it comes to running R selection daygame, one of the key aspects in getting a successful close is by sub communicating your sexual intentions. There is a lot written about subcommunication in the manosphere and beyond which revolves around touching, eye contact and body language. Handsome men can get away with communicating their sexual intentions verbally, for the rest of us, we’ve got to build attraction before we do that.
The language that has got men laid for millenia
As charming as your words as are, this is not what’s going to get you laid. Men have been hardwired to display their sexual intent onto women they find attractive since Fred picked up Wilma, and those words are just to fill the vacuum whilst you do the ritual dance.
Sub communicating your sexual intentions covers:
- Eye contact
When approaching and delivering your opener, you must hold eye contact. You’ve got to display a desire in your eyes, one that holds her attention, displays attraction for her and makes her focus on you and your delivery. Ensure that throughout your delivery your eyes are locked with hers. Do not follow your hand signals nor look her up and down – just hold eye contact.
Women love the eyes of men as they give her an insight into your world and what kind of man you are. There’s no lying with the eyes, however you can create fractionation (a post on this at a later date) by using them intently, softly or playfully. Your eyes can help you create tension, break tension and are effective in sub communicating your sexual intentions. Don’t go overboard like a lunatic with eyes wide open and not even blinking – that’s not socially adjusted.
Your presence is an important part of any stop and you lead the interaction that follows. With every open, you’re there to display and push your masculinity onto her and show that you’ve got dominance. Now I’m not talking about going all Julien Blanc here but this again is done covertly. That smug cheeky grin aligned with a well adjusted body language that isn’t rigid and always concentrated on leaning back (this will happen naturally later on) but decisive movements. Close the gap between you and the girl instantly as soon as you stop and open. The videos of PUA’s stopping girls and maintaining a nice distance gives off a “nice guy” feel. Push yourself to take one step forward.
Gestures with your hand create a commanding aura around you, you’ll notice that very influential public speakers have used these throughout history to dominate their rivals and audience. Once you’ve got her hooked, you can be playful. Touch her nose, prod her belly, hold her arms when you say something into her eyes and lots more. Over time though as the interaction goes on, your energy levels will naturally drop and you’ll be more relaxed, more laid back and hopefully your vocal tone follows this.
A nice low vocal tone can show low investment but also matched with your eyes will assist in sub communicating your sexual intentions. Relax, talk slowly, there’s no rush, there’s plenty of time, don’t change your pitch nor tone. When I open a girl, a lot of the time when replayed on audio it sounds almost robotic but unbelievably slow and trance like. However it displays that I think I’m worthy of this girl and she understands that too. I’m not speaking very fast and nor with a lot of energy and that gives the impression that I have no fear of her walking away. I’m convinced she’s here to stay and the time I take to deliver my opener means that she understands this too. She understands that a ritual dance is about to commence.
Intensity is something that is very important for R selection daygame. This, however, is difficult for many as they aren’t socially savvy or they are afraid of burning whatever momentum they have built up during this love bubble that they’ve created. Here’s where you’ve got to be skillful and take advantage of the information she tells you. You’ve got to have teases ready for those moments where you can inject a sexual vibe into the conversation (and naturally pull away from it too). You’ve got to combine this will all other aspects of your subcommunication from your presence to your tone and most importantly your eyes. A combination that is well struck will leave her tingling and frazzled. Krauser is an expert at this and does it really well, check out a few of his videos to this in action.
R selection daygame is tough, you’re not the nice guy, you’re not the bad guy either. You’re the guy with the right mix who understands how sub communicating your sexual intentions will get you the bang. Leave your nice guy card at home, inject a thrill into the conversation and use the power of your body to make an impact.