I hate betas. I really fucking hate betas. The way they look, the way they walk, the way they talk, the way they get excited like a little kid when a girl talks to them, the way they get in my way, the vacant look in their eyes of fear and mediocrity, the way they peddle out the same boring jokes, the way they conform and roll over to people, the way they stumble over their mates they’ve known for years to beat them to a girl they’ve just literally met, their lack of hygiene, their lack of self consciousness, their moaning and defeatism, the oneitis after oneitis, their lack of ambition, their cockblocking, how their relationships with girls is a one man mission to keep her happy, their lack of motivation for self improvement, their consumerism and constant up-to-date purchases, the way they’re always taking pictures of boring shite to put on Facebook and just in general, their existence.
Despite all that (and many more, trust me), I’m thankful for betas. For every girl I’ve ever dated, there’s always been at least one beta in that girl’s life to make me look better. alpha male
Since the beginning of the human race, alpha men have fought it out with each other over a common interest whether it’s shelter, food, or women. You would naturally think that other alpha men in the world are going to harm your chances with women. They’ve got game, they’re hunting the same women as you and it means you’re competing. A little competition is always good, sure, but I’m lazy and I prefer the simpler things in life. I would rather have a beta to contend with and swat aside with ease than to go toe-to-toe with another alpha in a packed out bar. Anyone saying they like a challenge is a fucking liar.
However, society has changed and is still changing. The alpha male is more precious, more rare and more remarkable than the every day man (and I use that term very loosely) that you’ll see on the streets.
We live in a world where men grow up to idolise and put women on pedestals, to treat them right and to have it ingrained into their minds from a young age that women are the prizes of the Earth, right? The women, however, are getting fed up. They love the beta orbiters on their Facebook, Instagram and Twitter accounts as much as the next hamster to give them the automatic likes, retweets and comments they so desperately rely on, but they don’t like the people giving them. Not for another 10-12 years anyway. alpha male
They want the “badboys”, the assholes and the jerks because they break the mould. The alpha men are the prizes. The alpha men are the ones to be appreciated because they’re rarer and harder to find these days.
When I first got into game I thought to myself “fuck, this is great. I want to keep it secret. I don’t want anyone else in the world to stumble upon this”.
Yet, last week I was sitting in a coffee shop (as per my First Date Advice post) before meeting a girl who was predictably late for a date. My state wasn’t the best it’s been. I wasn’t happy, I wasn’t excited but I wasn’t miserable, anxious, pissed off or upset. I was fairly chilled out and comfortable and was happy to stay that way. alpha male
I sat in the coffee shop for about 5 minutes next to an Eastern European woman. My guess was Polish. She was reading a book by herself and I thought to myself that she’s waiting for her boyfriend. She had that look that she was waiting.
A couple of minutes later, sure enough a guy walks into the coffee shop. He walks across the shop near to where I’m sitting and I see him looking at the Polish girl. She looks at him and he carries on walking confidently near to her. He stops next to one of the employees standing by his girl who is carrying a case of bottled water to fill up the fridge and he nicks one from him.
The employee looks around confused and the guy starts fucking with him by going to hand the bottle back to him, withdrawing it, putting it behind his back and all that whilst wearing the cheekiest, don’t-give-a-fuck smile I’ve seen all year. He hands it back and I turn to him laughing as he sits down next to his Polish girl who’s trying to hide that her vagina is aching for him with a “oh I’m so embarrassed” look. alpha male
I laugh, he laughs and she laughs. There you go, bro. Have some value.
He winks at me, he knows what I know about the world and he knows that I know. Game always recognises game. He then takes his girl downstairs and I’m there for about 5 minutes before I get a text from my girl saying she’s going to be another 15 minutes late. Whatever. I wanna see the conclusion to this. I’m buzzing and my heart is warm that there’s a guy with solid game in the same shop as me. I’ve been in London for over 2 years and never seen a guy kill it with an entrance like that before. People were looking and laughing and his girl nearly collapsed into a pool of her own vag juice before he even said hi to her.
No more than 5 minutes later they’re walking back up the stairs into the coffee shop. They’re talking close to each other, share a hug, and she sits back down where she was before. The guy hadn’t even taken his coat off the whole time and he leaves the coffee shop. As he goes, he puts his hands up in the air and starts waving as if there’s a massive audience around him. I start laughing again and he gives me a “yeah, I’m the man” look with a cheeky smile. I see him walk past the massive windows down the street looking at his phone.
He’s just left this lizard next to me staring lovingly into space as if he’d just injected her with a special serum. My mind was wondering what he was doing on his phone and what other girl in a coffee shop he was going to visit next. I got a text from my girl a few moments later and met up with her absolutely buzzing, full of energy and confident as fuck. Seeing him work really revitalised me when I was feeling lethargic. alpha male
Are alpha men foes? I don’t think so. They’re such a rarity these days that when the Three Bromigos have been out, we’ve had other alphas coming up to us and saying “you guys game, don’t you?” and a new relationship is formed. There is a mutual respect when alpha men meet these days. It’s not about who’s going to own the territory and it’s not about who’s going to beat the other guy and get the venue’s best bounty. It’s finding like minded guys who you can go on to share some adventures with knowing full well they’re the types of guys you want to be hanging out with and should be hanging out with. alpha male
You can do twice the amount of damage by teaming up with another alpha than you would if you’re competing with one. This is why Rock Solid Game (RSG) came about, to get a group of like minded men together to help each other fuck the best girls they could find and enjoy life. The Three Bromigos will continue their legacy by helping save the lives of betas and bringing together isolated alpha males. alpha male
Alpha men – friend or foe? alpha male