I’ve had a few thoughts about R/K selection girls recently. I know I’ve been a quiet for quite a long time, not much posting from me on here nor around the manosphere. That’s because I moved to Central/Eastern Europe and landed myself in a 9-5 office job. Yes, it seems awful, the daily grind of office life, tap tap tapping away at your desk whilst talking to some twat half way around the world. Thankfully its not as bad as it seems, my work life balance is the best it’s been since I started working and somehow it’s due to the government of this country. I’ve planted myself in Krakow and it’s certainly been an interesting couple of years here. At this moment in time, I can’t see myself moving anywhere else, it’s as though I’ve settled…
One of the most important ways to have a girl stick around with you is to have good sex with her. It’s almost the gateway into her soul. I can recall so many times where I’ve finished up in bed with a girl, laid down trying to catch my breath, and seen these huge, bright and sparkling eyes look at me in pure adulation as if she was asking in her head “who is this guy?”
My “problem” with girls is when I’ve shagged them and don’t want much else from them. But I’ve had such good sex with them that they want more and more. I only want to see them once or twice, but the sex I’ve had with them means they won’t stop blowing up my phone. I know it sounds like I’m boasting here, but I’m a realist and I just tell it how it is. I’m good in bed, and if you want to capture a girl’s soul, then you need to learn how to have good sex too.
There are a few simple tips that I have for you lads to become better in the sack. I didn’t start having regular sex until I was 23 years old, and spent a lot of time watching pornos and learning techniques from them. God bless you, internet. But there’s more to it than positions. It’s all about rhythm, power, and taking charge. Here’s a few ways you can improve your sex life with your missus:
1 – Learn not to spaff straight away
Probably the biggest problem in the bedroom is when lads finish too quickly. When it comes to sex, I used to worry about how long I’d last, but there are ways to improve this. I know some guys reading this will think “well, as long as I come, I don’t care” – good for you, mate.
Anyway, there are certain “techniques” you can master to prevent yourself from spaffing early. All it requires is a little communication in the bedroom, and not being fearful of talking about it to the girl. If I feel myself about to come only 2 minutes in, then simply pulling out for about 5 seconds stops it. I can then put it back in and last for ages. Problem solved. Don’t be scared to talk to your girl about it and don’t be fearful of what she’ll say. Just take charge. Which leads me to point number two…
2 – Be dominant in bed
Not exactly rocket science or mind-blowing advice, but you have to be dominant in the bedroom. Pull her around, roll her over, push her down, grab her legs, and move her to where you want her. If you’ve got a girl asking you “what do you want me to do in the bedroom?” then you’re doing things right.
Don’t let her switch positions when she wants to – that’s your job. She wants to go on top? Nope. Roll her over and do her doggy. She’s on top but wants to change? Nope. Pull her towards you and start fucking her with all of your might. You’re the leader – make her follow you.
3 – The 7 shallow, 1 deep technique
I can’t take credit for this one. I heard about it from someone else early in the summer and I have no idea where he heard it from, but I gave it a go and it worked wonders.
It increases the sexual tension between you and the girl and it makes her go into a frenzy. She’ll start pulling you in towards her and will start flailing around in frustration as a result, which is what good sex is all about. The more you frustrate her, the better the experience is for her, which will lead you to capturing her soul.
The idea is this: you pump her in sequences of 8.
The first 7 pumps are shallow, then the 8th is deep.
The first 6 pumps are shallow, then the 7th and 8th are deep.
The first 5 pumps are shallow, then the 6th, 7th and 8th are deep.
The first 4 pumps are shallow, then the 5th, 6th, 7th and 8th are deep.
The first 3 pumps are shallow, then the 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th and 8th are deep.
The first 2 pumps are shallow, then the 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th and 8th are deep.
The first pump is shallow, then the other 7 are deep.
Then you do it in reverse order. Voila. You will be a sex God if you use this technique and stay disciplined with it despite how much she wants you to just go deep, deep, deep.
4 – It’s all about the rhythm
A lot of guys think that sex should just be pumping and pumping and pumping as hard and as fast as you can. Not only does that lead you to shooting your load a lot sooner, but it also doesn’t do as much as you think for girls.
When I first started having sex regularly, I fucked a Brazilian girl where I learned to start having more rhythm in sex. This made my following experiences so much better with the other girls I fucked. Pay attention to what her body is doing, and react accordingly. If she’s pushing towards you, you don’t want to be pulling away.
You should be pushing on her as she is pushing on you (assuming she’s not lazy). Good sex is like a dance, and you shouldn’t feel awkward whilst you’re doing it. Again, don’t be afraid to talk to her – communication is vital.
5 – Go as deep as you can
“Easy for you to say, Matt. You can end wars with your penis.”
I know, I know, but even guys who are hung like hamsters can get in deep. Learn some positions where you can get all the way in and touching her stomach without having the largest member. Her legs over your shoulders for example. Pull her hips in towards you whilst you’re fucking her. The deeper you go, the better it is for both you and her.
Thus ends your sex education class from The 3 Bromigos. I’ve heard complaints from girls in social circles I have about not having good sex often enough. Sure, there are good looking guys about, but apparently you’d be surprised about what your male competition can actually do in the bedroom.
If you want a healthy relationship, if you want to keep a girl interested in you, and if you want her talking to her friends about how amazing you are in the sack and having them interested in you too, then make sure you take on board some of the advice above.
If you’re interacting with a horny girl, then you can get away with whatever you like. I had this confirmed to me recently.
A very common misunderstanding is that men think with their dicks, but I find it’s more the case that girls lead with their genitals out of the two genders. Men will think with their brains for the benefit of their dicks. For example:
“That girl looks like she’s in trouble, if I help her maybe I can get her number”
“That girl looks cold, if I give her my coat maybe I can get her number”
“If I buy that girl a drink, maybe I can take her home tonight”
“I I buy that girl a present, maybe she’ll become interested in me”
“If I agree with everything she says, that’ll increase my chances of having sex with her”
That’s not leading with the dick, but it’s all with the dick in mind.
If you’ve ever hit on a girl or have read up and familiarised yourself with the phrase “pussy tingle”, then you’ll know it’s true what I’m saying. Press the right buttons with a girl and all logical brain thoughts go out of the window. Her pussy takes over and tells her what to do.
It’s how even the not-so-good-looking guys can pull hot girls: because she’s acting on her pussy, not what her brain is telling her. Ever heard a girl say “I like him, but I don’t know why”? Bingo. Her pussy tells her so.
Now, if you’re talking to a horny girl, you can use her state to your advantage. Of course, you can put a horny girl off by acting on one of the white knighting thoughts mentioned above, but if you tell her what to do to get what you want she’ll agree. She’ll be your slave.
She’s not thinking with her head. She’s thinking with her pussy and her pussy is telling her to put up with any shit that’s thrown at her so that she can get laid. The more of an asshole you are to her, the stronger her pussy talks to her. Her brain won’t care because it’s the bits between her legs that are doing the thinking for her.
The fact of the matter is that she’ll do anything when she’s horny to just get laid. She doesn’t think of the consequences of her actions until after she’s had her fill of dick. So, that’ll see her having sex in public places, being humiliated sexually for her pussy’s gratification, agreeing to having sex without a condom, and having interracial sex with black guys like Bojangles.
Just kidding. He’s brown.
When I got my Spanish flag when I was in Spain the other month, the girl I was with was just like this. She got so horny when she came round that as soon as I took her to the bedroom we were fucking within 1 minute.
Before, we were in the living room drinking, talking and having a laugh. As the night got on, she got more and more horny and started getting a lot more touchy with me. I could see it in her eyes that she really wanted to fuck me, but I just let it build up more and more in her.
By the time I eventually kissed her, she went full throttle on me; grabbing me all over, squeezing me, biting me, scratching me, dry humping me. The full works.
Now, I normally take charge during sex but she was so horny she just took over. I picked her up, took her to the bedroom and threw her on the bed before climbing on top of her. She started ripping all of my clothes off, and I her’s. Without a moment’s hesitation, she grabbed my dick and put it inside her.
Seems like I left out another point in my “5 Ways to Have Sex Without A Condom” post – have sex with a really horny girl.
We ended up fucking for like 30 minutes, and a little while after we finished, she came to her senses. “Hey!! You didn’t use a condom!! I’m not on birth control!!”
At first I thought “what the fuck?! You put it in!” but I knew I wouldn’t be able to reason with her. It was almost as if the absolute frenzy she was in before we actually had sex was another person that had possessed her and taken over her mind. But, it wasn’t another person. It was her pussy.
And since a pussy doesn’t have a brain and therefore a subiculum (that’s the short term memory centre in the brain, you uneducated swines), she could not remember herself sticking my dick inside her pussy. So, naturally, it was my fault that we had sex without a jonny.
The next time she came over, the exact same thing happened. She got really horny, we had sex, then she mentioned “you didn’t wear a condom!!” again. This time she said it later on in the night – as in, after having 3 sessions. She was one fucking horny girl not to remember any of what happened before!
So, when you get a girl in that state, you can do whatever the fuck you want with her. If you want to fuck her on the balcony where everyone can see you, she’ll do it. If you want to slip it in her ass, she’ll let you. If you want to slap her about a bit, she’ll submit and won’t cause a fuss over it. If you want to fuck her without a condom, she won’t care. Well, not until you’ve finished anyway.
Let’s say you’re on a night out with your mates. You’ve successfully managed to get the attention of a girl you’re interested in, and you’re talking with her at the bar and everything is going well.
She’s very much into you, and you both keep drinking together, flirting and maybe even make out with each other. As the night progresses, she’s getting more and more drunk, and as a result, more and more lairy. She starts acting like a bitch towards people, she starts taking the piss out of you for her own amusement trying to get a reaction out of you, and she’s rubbing up on other guys or reciprocating their attention. Yet, you hang around still, and she’s not pushed you away.
You’ve got three choices to make.
The operative words in this post’s title are “thanks to”, not “with”. Don’t get confused! I did not have sex with a transexual. Living in London, you see a lot of these freakshows around and they’re pretty easy to spot so as not to get duped by them.
Tell tale signs of transexuals are massive hands, masculine physiques, a masculine jawline, thin hair, devil horns and a reptilian tongue.
When I was living in London last year, I had the misfortune of living above a couple of transexuals and a gay couple. It was a fucking nightmare at times. In fairness, the two gay dudes were sound, but the fucking trannies were a proper headache.
Honestly, if you are born as a male and have the intention to chop your dick off, there is something wrong in your brain. You are mentally not all there. I don’t care what society says, but if you “identify with another gender”, then you’re a head case and I want you to keep well away from me.
Okay, she’s going to be round soon. Make sure everything is tidy and looking good in here, and that there’s no rubbish lying around. Make it look good for her.
God, what I am going to do to her and that ass of her’s. Has she messaged me to tell me when she’s gonna get here?
Nope, nothing. Hmm, I suppose she’ll just get here when she gets here. How am I looking?
Yeah, decent. The mood lighting is all set too. Fucking hell, when is she going to get here?
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Everyone knows what the sex eyes are but I don’t think they’re utilised enough.
When you’re picking up girls, too much is made on how to open them, what to say during the conversation and how and when to escalate sexually. Giving girls the sex eyes already does that, and what’s best is that you don’t even have to wait until you’re talking to them. If you’re giving a girl the sex eyes and she continues you look at you without looking away, creeped out or put off, then she’s interested.
You’ve already communicated with her a sexual persona, she’ll already be thinking about you sexually because she knows that you’re thinking about her sexually.
Just to clarify, here’s a few pictures of the sex eyes, although somewhat exaggerated. As Roissy says though, better to be bold than not. [Read more…]
We’ve been a bit quiet this week over here as we’ve been focusing on our upcoming trip and tying up loose ends here in London. It’s been over 4 years now that I’ve been actively changing my life and changing it for the better. If you had told me at the age of 25 that in a few years I’d be embarking on a long term trip around Europe doing fuck all in terms of work, I’d have laughed, taken a toke and dreamed about it whilst lying on my friends couch as he roared around a track on Project Gotham Racing 2. Meeting the Rock Solid Game crew was a real turning point in what was going to be an insipid life of slaving in a cubicle, having a romantic tryst every blue moon and probably an indentured one too. Following that old path of my parents probably hooking me up with some broad, marriage, a hefty mortgage and working my ass off until kingdom come.
First came the romance as I’ll call it in a remarkably padded way, it was never romance of course, just seduction and fun. A weekend with the top guys in London set me off on a path filled with 2 years of serious daygame and plenty of one night stands with a wide variety [Read more…]
Last week just a day before I headed off for a weekend of Class A drugs, booze and head thumping to Showtek & Justin – Cannonball, I got poked on Facebook by a young Indian girl. I glanced at her solitary viewable picture and she looked pretty cute, a high seven if you’re going to rank her. I poked her back a day later and went off to enjoy my crazy ass trip. I got back earlier this week and have just spent it in a mode of wanting to party and wanting to relax and recover from the abuse my body suffered for 5 days, checking my Facebook account I see a poke back.
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So the Polish blondie booked some flights to London for a long weekend and then told me she was coming. It caught me off guard, I’d kept in contact over Facebook after putting some thoughts of visiting into her little Polish brain over Christmas and New Years and she’d put that to action. She was pretty implicit in that she wanted to spend the whole time with me, she has quite a few friends in town from working in town previously but she’d be happy hanging with me and meeting my Bromigos. Earlier last week she told me she was sick, damn these girls, they are up for passing on all sorts of shit. Bromigo Matt is constantly under the weather from the all cooties he catches from kissing all these girls.
On the day of her arrival she messaged me to say she felt better and let me know what time she was landing. My friend Sammi owes me quite a few favours so I he picked me up and drove to the airport where she was eagerly waiting at the passenger pickup. Women as we all know in general do not age well, this girl had not aged at all since I last saw her, I don’t really get too awestruck as much as I used to but I had to pause for a second as I sat in the car. Sammi nudged my elbow a little “woah is that her Bojangles! Is she really Polish?” “Yes lad that’s her”. It was a sunny day, once again I was doing my best Fonz impression with my shades on and walked over to her grabbed her by the butt and gave her a long kiss and grope (shit is that beta? haha). For a moment I did not say anything as I gazed deeply into her green eyes, she smiled, blushed and said “Hi to you too”. I grabbed her hand and dragged her over to the car and threw her in.