They say that men are better at planning for the future than women, and women tend to only think about the now without any thought of the consequences later on.
Generally it’s true, it’s written into the female biological make up. It’s a part of who they are. They’ll act on emotion and really won’t care about the future consequences of their actions in the present. Generally, men will make a more logical decision and think about repercussions before acting.
Humans, as a whole these days, will live in a “I’ll deal with it when the time comes” kind of mindset. I’m sure everyone is guilty of it, as I am myself, and it’s a particularly common mindset for people in their 20s, as I am.
People don’t want to worry about how they’re going to maintain a certain lifestyle when they’re retired. They’d rather think about that closer to the time. People don’t want to worry about making a decent living or career, they just want to party and live in the moment. They’d rather think about that closer to the time. People don’t want to worry about their health, they’d rather worry about it when they finally settle down.
I know this girl, and I met up with her on Sunday, who is a complete party girl. Her motto has been the cliched and overused-by-white-girls-on-the-internet “here for a fun time, not a long time”. She’s in her late 20s and her body can’t keep up with her now. She’s spent most of her 20s partying and travelling (aka taking dick) and now that she can no longer afford to do it financially and in health, she has no clue what to do with her life. She’s taken a temp job as a bar promoter which she hates but [Read more…]