A lot’s made of body language, and I fully agree that it’s one of the most fundamental things to being successful with pulling girls whether on the street or in a bar.
When talking to a girl, you don’t want to appear thirsty. You don’t want to come across as if you don’t get much female attention, even if it’s true, and you don’t want to show the girl that you’re latching onto her for as long as possible as you don’t know when the next girl is going to come along and chat to you.
Most guys are like fat women when having sex. They give it their all, absolutely 100%, in the hopes of keeping that person around for some more or to come back. They pull out all the stops trying to make girls laugh thinking that’s the way into their bed, they will happily climb over their mates they’ve known for years to make themselves appear as the ringleader and they’ll throw all dignity out of the window in their efforts to appease the girl.
This is how oneitis starts, this is how “creepy” guys lurking around girls they’ve failed with will roll and this is how they all end up in their own beds wanking themselves off over the girl they “almost” got with that night. [Read more…]