I’ve had a few thoughts about R/K selection girls recently. I know I’ve been a quiet for quite a long time, not much posting from me on here nor around the manosphere. That’s because I moved to Central/Eastern Europe and landed myself in a 9-5 office job. Yes, it seems awful, the daily grind of office life, tap tap tapping away at your desk whilst talking to some twat half way around the world. Thankfully its not as bad as it seems, my work life balance is the best it’s been since I started working and somehow it’s due to the government of this country. I’ve planted myself in Krakow and it’s certainly been an interesting couple of years here. At this moment in time, I can’t see myself moving anywhere else, it’s as though I’ve settled…
Jimmy Jambone here.
Student debt can be as high as £40,000, but that is insignificant next to the lost compound interest opportunity on meager savings invested in one’s late teens or early 20s. By this I mean savings you can’t make if you’re first studying and secondly paying off debt. I can demonstrate that 14 years of saving (16 to 30) would grow to about £330,000 at 65. That’s a good pension plan sorted by the time you are 30.
Night game is something Bojangles and I excel at when we’re in a bar. We’ve been doing it long enough to work out what the most effective techniques are and how to use the environment to our advantage.
Now, when we work our night game routine, very little of it is actually approaching girls. We either do it with them approaching us in mind, or working things to a point where we’re pretty much guaranteed not to be blown out. I like the easier things in life.
A large part of our night game is building value in a bar, taking it away from everybody else, and having girls shoot us a series of different looks and other indicators of interest. Once it reaches boiling point, then that’s when we’ll head over to talk to a couple of girls or a group of them.
It massively helps you if you have a bar on lockdown. If you know the bar staff, the owner, the dancers, the promoter, or whoever else works there, then it will only go in your favour. Turning up late to a packed bar and having all the barmen and the owner greet you is fucking awesome and makes your life a whole lot easier. Everyone will be looking at you. The girls will be intrigued, and the guys will feel deflated because they know they’re not the coolest dudes in the room.
As a pair, Bojangles and I are very keen not to seem like “those guys” that sit down together in a bar silently and just look at women. Too many beta guys do this. Although we’re not looking at girls in the same way as the betas (i.e. in desperation and thirst), we want to keep our value high.
We have a lot of things to talk about together, but there’s a time and a place for certain conversations. Spending a lot of time together too, we can run out of things to say to keep each other entertained – particularly in a loud bar where you want to keep conversation to a minimum.
Bojangles devised a little night game technique to make it seem like you’re occupied and also to keep your value high. It’s proved immense in our night game routine and has a lot of girls curious about us because we’re not “those guys” just sitting around waiting to be opened by a group of girls. We’re living in our own world. Coupled with the value from the bar staff, we seem a level above everyone else.
The technique is very simple. If you’re stuck for words with each other, and don’t want to just sit round twiddling your thumbs, keep the conversation flowing by just talking to one another like this:
“Blah blah blah”
“Blahdy blah blah motherfucking blah blah”
Sounds stupid, I know. But it has a lot of positives.
You can’t help but laugh at each other when you talk this way. Laughing among yourselves with girls looking over at you creates a big interest. Who are these guys? Why are they only paying attention to themselves? Why aren’t they looking at us? What are they talking about? What’s so funny?
People always want to be in on a joke.
This will keep your value high in a bar, keep your energy up and ensure that you don’t look like boring twats. No girl wants to be with a boring twat.
As the night goes on, you’ll realise that you’re getting a lot more looks. Maintain eye contact with girls, lean closer to your mate and keep doing the “blah blah” technique. With a cocky smile, the girl will think you’re talking about her and her friends. She’ll become flustered but won’t stop looking over at you to see if you’re still interested in her or talking about her.
That’s when you strike. Head over to the table that she’s at and hit on her and her friends. She’ll already have told her friends about you. Her friends have probably noticed you already. It breeds a bit of familiarity because they know who you are (to a degree) before you’ve hit on them and makes the process a lot smoother.
The key is to build up that value first. By displaying your value in the bar, you separate yourselves from the other groups of guys in there that will be sitting around with each other, drinking and staring at girls as if to say “I wish I could have her”. You’re the cool group who are having fun, and people want to be a part of that.
Blah blah motherfucking blah. It’s really simple.
Another weekend The3Bromigos Daygame Bootcamp Review. Had 2 more lads roll up into London from the South Coast of England, good friends who had varying levels of experience. Christian came in having blasted his mind with the world of the manosphere and having engaged in impressive levels of mental masturbation and less action. Tom was new to the world and had an idea of what goes on in the light of the red pill but had not embraced it. It’s a challenge and an enjoyable one meeting two contrasting personalities and trying to tailor their approaches to the way they are and the men they aim to become. To be honest I believe that the differences are subtle and that certain methods can be applied in a similar fashion, but it’s the subtle differences that can make or break a guy’s entry into the world of Daygame.
Mike, a student from the weekend sent me a quick review of how he felt his daygame bootcamp went, here are his thoughts: [Read more…]
A few weeks ago, I went out with one of Bojangles’ students from a bootcamp and he asked me “what’s the one bit of advice you would give to improve my confidence?”
I felt like I’d been put on the back foot because I couldn’t answer his question as well as I thought I should’ve been able to. There’s a few things I told him that felt more like generic answers to the question such as buying new clothes and going to the gym more.
Ever since then, I’ve been thinking to myself where confidence comes from, and I believe it comes from happiness.
You can’t teach someone happiness. You can’t teach them how to smile, how to be positive and how to truly be confident. That has to come from within themselves.
It’s been just over 2 months since I last posted and here I am again. I’m on the final stretch of my time in London and I’m counting down the days until I can leave.
So I had an impressive daygame student at the weekend, a lad who has never done any daygame before. I was quite startled at quick he took to it and I took plenty of pictures of him roaming around hitting on lovely English and foreign women. I enjoy it and hate it at the same time, the enjoyment comes from seeing another guy take to daygame and do well as I did when I first started 5 years ago or so. The initial fear of daygame, the first approach, the nervousness, the delight when it goes well and the eagerness to not stop, to not have a lull, to keep on hitting on every pretty girl that takes your fancy. The hate part is purely selfish, I want to concentrate on our lad’s improvement so I want him to control the emotions that come from hitting on that 9 even though that’s a girl I’d like to be interacting. I don’t want to be hitting on a girl walking past him when he’s in a conversation. Simple rules to ensure that his confidence doesn’t get blown by me being an ass.