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New daygame infield event – Saturday 7th March – London
Four simple rules for the first few minutes of a street pickup
Jimmy Jambone here. Coolest fucker in street pickup.
After a long lay-off, I’ve been retracing my street pickup knowledge to some extent these past few weekends. The training ground has been my closest ‘home city’ of Manchester.
When I taught street pickup, I learned quickly that the most effective way to teach I could find was not necessarily to teach kids what to do, but to watch them do a few sets and tell them what to stop doing.
For this reason I recorded my early sets to self-teach myself what my issues were after such a long lay off. Recording your sets is so valuable, you can review what happened and you see what you don’t see in the moment – all the bad shit.
So if you’re anything other than a top table street pickup artist, get yourself some equipment to record your work and watch over it when you get home.
Here are four basic early mistakes which I made and which I have swiftly corrected.
The Stop
Get in front of her and stop her moving. Smile, keep a safe distance, about an arm’s length or just over, make eye contact and own her. Command her visuals, take up her path and own her world. She must physically and mentally stop. Don’t position yourself as a side dish, but the main course and the focal point.
Don’t get lazy with the stop, no matter how competent you feel you are.
You’re a man of charm and style, you do the little things right.
Vocals
How many times I have moaned at my students for talking too quickly. It’s one of the single most common mistakes I saw guys making. Speak slowly and evenly at first while you rope her into your bubble.
You want to tease her into your frame. Speaking slowly with eye contact and a low tone is soothing and hypnotic.
Jabbering like a fucking lunatic is one of those behaviours to iron out.
Take your time to pitch your reason for stopping her. If you can take ten seconds, you’re on your way to her not caring where she was headed.
Get her to do the talking
You like her and you want to find out more about her. If she wants to talk, shut up and let her. Not letting her talk is contrary to the claim you want to get to know her (which is what you’re saying when you stop her to talk to her). It’s not congruent if you don’t let her talk.
If she is talking, let her do it. You guide the path of the conversation, you lead the subject matter, but if you can get her talking you’re halfway there.
Save your guns
If you can get her contributing to the conversation then you’re doing very well. Now, if you can’t get her talking then you have to stack, search for hooks, DHV yourself, plough and generally persuade her into talking and sometimes you’ll want to spike her with some attraction material.
Don’t be keen to blow all your top lines in one minute, no matter how hilarious they may be.
Get her talking and save the ammo. You may really wish you had something sharp to throw in for when the conversation peters out.
Or for when you’re on an instant date.
Now get out there and do it. It’s show time. These simple rules will elevate your street pickup skills or you can learn street pickup from us if you’ve got a moment to spare.
How it all started for Bojangles – Part 2 day game
After that first night out with Tony T and Burto, we were told to meet early in Covent Garden for around 11 am for a day game session. I got there a bit earlier and had breakfast with one of the other students, who had come from out of town to do the day game bootcamp.
Daygame Overkill by Nick Krauser – Review
This is a guest post by Teedub:
I’ll begin by saying, Daygame Overkill is very good. Not only is the featured seminar full of cutting edge insight, the in-field analysis is what truly sets it apart from anything else I’ve come across. Krauser is on top of his game in the filmed sets provided, and it definitely shows you where to aim for in terms of overall daygame mastery. Confidence, improvisation, social savvy, intuitive technical stuff…it’s all laid out. It is, quite frankly, the best daygame product out there currently, bar none.
2015 for the The 3 Bromigos
We’ve been a bit quiet recently here at The 3 Bromigos but that’s not due to any laziness on our part. We’re working on a few projects and ebooks surrounding the topics of daygame and Indian men for 2015. We’re hoping to drop a few free guides and ebooks to help you make 2015 a great year. There will also be some surprises in store.
Winter daygame bootcamps
Yes winter is coming but the search for hot new girls never ends. London of course is the centre of daygame and full of sexy girls from all over the world who are waiting to be opened. The daygame model was developed here and we’re here to help you learn. The 3 Bromigos will help you overcome your daygame issues whether you’re a beginner or well grounded with our winter daygame bootcamps.
Sub communicating your sexual intentions
When it comes to running R selection daygame, one of the key aspects in getting a successful close is by sub communicating your sexual intentions. There is a lot written about subcommunication in the manosphere and beyond which revolves around touching, eye contact and body language. Handsome men can get away with communicating their sexual intentions verbally, for the rest of us, we’ve got to build attraction before we do that.
Balls Deep by Nick Krauser – Review
‘From jilted lover to lady killer’ is the tagline on Krauser’s new book – Balls Deep which is the first volume of his memoirs.
It covers the story of how he got into the world of game and progressed towards become the heartbreaker today. I was at the two events he held to launch his recent products and he gave me a copy to have a look through. Balls Deep is really well made like his other books, you’ve got a professional cover, good artwork and over 400 pages of action, pain and fucking.
Choosing the pickup strategy that is ideal for you?
I’ve just returned from a 3 week jaunt in a magnificent European destination with my pal Krauser. It’s nice to get away from the toil of making millions and spend time with a mate who has similar ideals and much more wisdom than me when it comes to the world of pickup. We had a few set backs notably with illness but a lot was learned and a lot of our ideas and knowledge about game were cemented. One thing that we’ve both been practicising and perfecting over the past year is R selection game.
Girls Lack Self-Awareness
As a guy that is pretty focused on self improvement and achieving greater things, I often hold people (wrongly) by the same standard. I sometimes automatically, and naively, assume that other people have it hardwired into them to be humble and to look at always improving their situation. Whether they can make an immediate change (joining a gym, buying new clothes) or are planning for the long term (financial targets, financial independence), as long as they’re doing something, then I can respect them and will most likely get along with them just fine.
I met up with a guy called Sean the other day who is looking to improve his overall persona. He wants to be more confident, he wants to be able to control rooms he walks into, and he wants to be able to lead interactions with people effortlessly. This is the kind of thing that I respect.
It takes a lot of inner strength to be able to look into the mirror, see somebody you don’t like, and acknowledge that things need to change. Deciding to come to somebody else that you barely know, and asking for advice and actively seeking out help to improve your own situation takes a lot more strength and courage.
At a bar we were enjoying some drinks at, we got onto the topic of night game vs day game. I remarked that I feel more comfortable during the day because girls aren’t expecting anything, you can talk to who they really are, and they don’t have automatic bitch shields up.
The difference in girls during the day and during the night are quite stark. Their personalities change, their friendliness changes, and their overall confidence changes. It has to. Bars and clubs are the modern day equivalent to mating grounds where male animals present themselves to the most attractive women for reproduction, only this time, it’s not just the attractive women that feel that they’re the prize.
Due to the increase in social media, a below average looking girl can, from the comfort of her own bedroom, feel like a princess and like how one of the most popular girls in school did. The right lighting, the right airbrushing, and the right angle can do wonders for a chubby girl with low self esteem and no charisma.
This has lead to more and more girls walking around in social environments, whether that’s in the public domain or indeed a bar or club, thinking that they deserve the best. They’ve got hundreds of likes and followers as a platform for their new-found confidence and beauty, so who’s to challenge their self belief?
What makes it worse is that beta guys, blue pill guys, and low confidence guys tend to find their “swagger” and confidence in a night club scenario or at a bar. This is something that Bojangles and I found to be a constant problem during our jaunt in Croatia. During the day, 99% of guys are pussies. During the night, 99% of guys are your competition. Suddenly, they can throw their weight around. Suddenly, they can maintain eye contact with a girl. Suddenly, they can approach a girl. All with the backing of alcohol and their alcohol fuelled chump friends behind him.
This leads to a problem. Girls then get hit on more by different amounts of guys, and they suddenly wait for the next upgrade. They turn down decent looking guys in hopes of the muscular, well-dressed, chisel-jawed adonis to come up to them.
It doesn’t matter what the girl looks like, she expects – no, demands – that she gets the best of the best. Never mind her bad skin, never mind her chubby belly, never mind her complete lack of individuality – she deserves the absolutely best of the guys.
What tends to happen in most scenarios is that the girl gets too drunk and, realising that this Prince Charming isn’t going to appear, settles for “less”.
Like it or not, as guys, we have to put a lot of effort in to impress girls. The more self-aware you are, the better you’ll do with girls. If you’re not successful, you figure out why and you address it which is one of the traits of being a man. When faced with a problem we use cold, hard logic to figure out the solution. Usually, anyway. And let’s not get started on the motivation required to sort out said problem.
Girls, however, with the amount of pro-women shite that appears in the media don’t need to worry about self-awareness. Unfortunately, there are too many thirsty guys out there to continue giving them a platform for their self delusions. No matter how they look, no matter how they act, and no matter how old they are, a guy will somewhere be propping her up.
When you’re constantly told you look beautiful or that you’re a great person, what need is there for self-assessment? Why would you even try and be self-aware when there are so many people to tell you all about you?
As a result of this, a lot of guys compare themselves to how women are treated. Nobody is there to tell John or Steve how well dressed he looks today or how hot he looks, so his confidence is battered. Men shouldn’t need that to feel confident. As long as you aware of yourself, your weaknesses and your strengths, then you can improve your life and your overall persona with a little bit of work. You just need to be patient and you’ll get there.
Those who lack self-awareness will only get so far in life. Women in particular will feel the bitter hit of the wall in due course, and then will have to face up to reality that they’re not as unique as they think. They won’t be able to figure out what’s gone wrong. As we’ve seen, this then leads into anti-men hate campaigns on the internet and so on.
The lack of self-awareness in girls needs to come to a stop. It will never truly come to an end because too many men let themselves and our gender down by liking pictures, commenting on pictures, messaging girls and chasing after girls that aren’t worth the attention.
Do us all a favour: stop with the social media shithousery. What you see on social media is not an accurate reflection of what you will get in real life. You are contributing to the problem every time you give a girl the attention that she desperately and undeservedly craves.
If you don’t believe me, go onto an independent escort agency’s website. Find what you believe is a hot prostitute on there and book half an hour with her. Turn up, and she’ll look nothing like she does in her pictures. She’s no different to the girls you’ll see on Instagram or Facebook.
And yes, I did book a whore once. And yes, I did walk away from it.
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