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You Need A Rat Pack

March 27, 2014 By Sundance Kid 1 Comment

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I’m coming to the end of my winter escape in Spain and things haven’t gone exactly as I’d planned.

In all honesty, I thought I’d have been a lot more social than I have been and I thought I’d have a social group that I’d have successfully infiltrated. I could have with one, but the girls weren’t high enough quality for me, the guys were lame, and my pickiness cut that off completely after a couple of outings.

But since I got here from day one, everything was thrown off course. The language barrier came as a shock, I’d just come off of living at home for a month in a pretty poor state so mentality I wasn’t very strong, and the seclusion of working holed up in my apartment trying to support myself plunged me further down.

My goals changed almost immediately for my time in Spain: make money, save money, and learn the language. That’s all I’ve been doing, really. I’ve banged a couple of girls and possibly have one more on the horizon before I leave next week.

Once the realisation hit me that things were going to be very different for me in Spain, I decided to knuckle down and save a load more money instead, looking forward and preparing for my venture in Croatia with Bojangles. Working for myself has been a lot more liberating and I feel that I’ve recovered from a shit year last year. My body feels back in check and I don’t feel or look so run-down from lack of sleep and stress.

The level of English here is really poor. I wasn’t expecting it to be fluent, but I was expecting a bit more than what I’ve experienced and it’s quite hard to meet guys to hang out with who are on the same wavelength as you.

The importance of having a group of solid friends, or a rat pack, has become very evident to me. I can’t survive on my own. I like living on my own, but I need to have a group of friends with me. Guys to keep me motivated, guys to chill with, guys to laugh with, guys to go out with,  guys to go to the gym with, guys to drink with, guys to hit on girls with, guys to watch sport with, and guys to enjoy European ventures with.

Most importantly: guys you can trust.

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You don’t want guys who are going to bitch out when you’re motivated to go out; you don’t want guys who are going to hold you back from achieving your goals; you don’t want guys who can’t help you with women; you don’t want guys who are going to hold you back; and you don’t want guys who are going to put their girlfriend ahead of you.

I’m not one for going out solo, it just doesn’t sit right with my introverted nature. I can try, sure, and I’m an extremely confident person on my best days, but I need back up. If someone knocks me down, I need friends to laugh about it with. If I’m going through a shit time, I need friends to forget about it with. If I’ve got an idea, I need friends to support it.

Rewind a year and ask me how many close friends I have that I can rely on and trust, and I could name 10. Now? At best, 4. I’ve dropped a lot of my “friends” in the past year who weren’t on the same wavelength as me or who have put their girlfriends ahead of our years upon years of friendship. I don’t have time for people who are going to hold me back or replace me at the first sign of a 7 entering their lives.

Instead, I’m focusing now on people who have stuck by me during a very testing year or so. And I’m focused on meeting more like minded people to share good times with and grow with.

A good group of friends that you know have your back make all the difference in the world. These past 3 months have really shown me just how much I value certain people and extremely importantly, that I need to make good connections for the future so I don’t have to go through what I’ve been through again.

I think being with a group of like-minded men is good not only for your mind and opportunities, but it’s good for the soul. My most enjoyable activity since I’ve been in Spain isn’t capturing my Spanish flag, but playing football every week. The camaraderie and banter between guys makes me forget a lot of other shit going on in my life and brings my own levels of confidence and arrogance up.

Had it been more regular, or had I had a group of friends to hang out with regularly, I could see myself being three times the person I am now. Not just in the opportunities I have in life, but my mental state, confidence and most likely my appearance. Getting laid and spending a time with a sexy señorita couldn’t even do this for me.

Even with your friends, there’ll be a competitive nature. Who can look the best? Who can earn more money? Who can pull the best girl? Who can lift more weights? Who can win a video game?

Competitiveness drives you forward both mentally and situationally. Your life will improve with a group of solid friends on the same wavelength as you.

The only issue is finding the guys you want to share your time with, and finding the guys who are equally as loyal to you as you are to them.

Sundance Kid

The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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Direct Day Game – A Response To Roosh

March 11, 2014 By Sundance Kid 16 Comments

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Yesterday, I read Roosh’s post entitled “4 Reasons Why I Don’t Recommend Direct Day Game“. It seems to have caught a bit of buzz in the PUA world and I thought I’d give my spin on it.

As he wrote in his post, he didn’t want to entice any “frothing at the keyboards” from direct gamers, and I’m not. I understand the points he’s made in his post, and I want to post the “other side” of the spectrum in a balanced way.

The thing with day game, much like anything else in life, is that there is no right or wrong. It depends wholly on your own opinions, what works for you and what you feel most comfortable with. You can also point to certain “excuses” for not bothering with direct day game as weaseling out of approaching, not being man enough for it, and so on. All a bunch of bollocks, really. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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5 Ways To Have Sex Without A Condom

December 9, 2013 By Sundance Kid 128 Comments

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Update: 1 million views on 5 ways to have sex without a condom

Like me, I’m sure some of you guys are asking “what the fuck is a condom?”

I’ve done some research (mainly through Google so it may not be entirely accurate) and I’ve found out that “condoms” are something you put on your dick when you want to have sex with a girl because it’s safer.

Well, how about that? You learn something new every day.

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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Power Shift

November 27, 2013 By Sundance Kid 11 Comments

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As I draw ever closer to leaving work, I’ve noticed a shift of power in my life.

I’m 6 more working days away from leaving and in the past couple of weeks I’ve felt the chains that were bounding me loosen more and more each day. It’s a very liberating feeling.

The people who have been holding these chains tightly around me no longer have that control and power over me and they know it. They don’t like it either because I’m now free to be who I am without worrying about consequences like getting a disciplinary or suspension, and other such bollocks. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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People Watching

November 22, 2013 By Sundance Kid 6 Comments

People watching is a funny old thing and it’s one of my favourite things to do when I’m out and about. It can give you a real perspective on life. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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So, You’ve Got Game. Now What?

November 21, 2013 By Sundance Kid 2 Comments

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Once most guys have learned about Game and how to attract beautiful girls, they get a superiority complex. They feel like they’ve made it in life and have finally pulled away from the realms of mediocrity by being something only a few men can be.

It’s like they’ve been granted access into a world where only a few chosen men before them were allowed to see what Game has now let them see. It was just the esoteric before them, but now any average Joe can discover Game and feel like he’s made it in life.

What Game does is open a guy’s eyes to female behavioural patterns and allows them to influence their decisions based on that understanding of their psyche. It’s nothing more than that. Having this knowledge, your life doesn’t really change much outside of getting girls.

The only thing that separates Game-aware guys and “normal”/”average” guys is the fact that they have more confidence to chat to a girl in a sexual manner, or approach a girl on the street stone cold sober. They’ll have more success with women than those that don’t have an understanding or any knowledge of Game. At the end of the day though, that’s it.

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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Hiatus

August 23, 2013 By Sundance Kid 5 Comments

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You may have noticed that we’ve not been as active as we were a few months ago.

There are a few reasons for this and when the three of us made a plan for this year in around November last year, we knew it’d be a tough year this year. We described it as a “foundation year” in that this year would prepare us for the years succeeding 2013. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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The Anti-PUA

July 24, 2013 By Sundance Kid 8 Comments

I’ve written about being keen to separate myself from the PUA lifestyle and make up a few times now. I don’t want to be seen as a PUA, and I don’t want to inspire people into becoming a PUA.

At the same time, I don’t want to knock the scene because it’s helped me become who I am. I just feel as if I’ve evolved from spending hours on the streets looking for girls and running routines on them. I will still approach girls on the street, but I’m not going to follow a PUA bible on how to present myself to a girl.

The scene is there for people to use, and I would recommend it to anyone who wants to further themselves and be able to talk to girls in a way that they’ve never done before. It will truly help you become better at picking girls up.

Will it make you a better man? Well, that’s to be debated. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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I Scored A Brace [OKCupid Lay Report]

July 1, 2013 By Sundance Kid 11 Comments

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In football, when you score three goals in one game it’s called a hattrick. Just thought I’d throw that out there for you Americans reading this.

That was my goal for this weekend; to score three girls in one weekend.

Unfortunately, I didn’t hit the target.

I should’ve read Christian McQueen’s Night Club Bible instead where he talks about how to skip queues, get free VIP tables and drinks, and how to pull the hottest girls. Available here

In football, when you score two goals in one game, it’s called a brace. Actually, it means a brace if you have two of anything, but that’s irrelevant. In my weekend, I had sex with two new girls and got myself a new flag.

Pretty successful, one might say. However, I would actually gladly take back my lay on Friday night and the new flag it presented to me for a peaceful, quiet Friday night with my hand. It was that bad. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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What I’ve Learned From An Eastern European Girlfriend

June 24, 2013 By Sundance Kid 43 Comments

The other day, I broke up with my Slovakian girlfriend. I didn’t want to, as she’s everything the manosphere talks about finding in terms of her femininity, beauty and her kindness, but I had to let her go.

I wrote in my post “Broken Inside Because of Oneitis?” that I was feeling disconnected from her and other girls, that I couldn’t quite bring myself around to feeling strongly for a girl.

Well, that changed temporarily the other week.

After learning about Game, how to make girls fall for me and to keep them interested, my heart has got colder and [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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