For a one-off new year special, I’m writing to you guys about a subject which is brushed under the carpet in this “manosphere” community. It’s one of the many reasons why I stopped actively contributing to the blog and subsequently stopped involving myself in discussions on forums and social media. To be fair, I haven’t read a lot (well, any) of the content that you guys read these days so it may have been covered a bit more in recent times. Even so, the point I want to make remains and isn’t discussed nearly enough.
Okay, she’s going to be round soon. Make sure everything is tidy and looking good in here, and that there’s no rubbish lying around. Make it look good for her.
God, what I am going to do to her and that ass of her’s. Has she messaged me to tell me when she’s gonna get here?
Nope, nothing. Hmm, I suppose she’ll just get here when she gets here. How am I looking?
Yeah, decent. The mood lighting is all set too. Fucking hell, when is she going to get here?
Just go sit down and watch something on TV to pass the time. [Read more…]
Once most guys have learned about Game and how to attract beautiful girls, they get a superiority complex. They feel like they’ve made it in life and have finally pulled away from the realms of mediocrity by being something only a few men can be.
It’s like they’ve been granted access into a world where only a few chosen men before them were allowed to see what Game has now let them see. It was just the esoteric before them, but now any average Joe can discover Game and feel like he’s made it in life.
What Game does is open a guy’s eyes to female behavioural patterns and allows them to influence their decisions based on that understanding of their psyche. It’s nothing more than that. Having this knowledge, your life doesn’t really change much outside of getting girls.
The only thing that separates Game-aware guys and “normal”/”average” guys is the fact that they have more confidence to chat to a girl in a sexual manner, or approach a girl on the street stone cold sober. They’ll have more success with women than those that don’t have an understanding or any knowledge of Game. At the end of the day though, that’s it.
Another weekend The3Bromigos Daygame Bootcamp Review. Had 2 more lads roll up into London from the South Coast of England, good friends who had varying levels of experience. Christian came in having blasted his mind with the world of the manosphere and having engaged in impressive levels of mental masturbation and less action. Tom was new to the world and had an idea of what goes on in the light of the red pill but had not embraced it. It’s a challenge and an enjoyable one meeting two contrasting personalities and trying to tailor their approaches to the way they are and the men they aim to become. To be honest I believe that the differences are subtle and that certain methods can be applied in a similar fashion, but it’s the subtle differences that can make or break a guy’s entry into the world of Daygame.
Mike, a student from the weekend sent me a quick review of how he felt his daygame bootcamp went, here are his thoughts: [Read more…]
A few weeks ago, I went out with one of Bojangles’ students from a bootcamp and he asked me “what’s the one bit of advice you would give to improve my confidence?”
I felt like I’d been put on the back foot because I couldn’t answer his question as well as I thought I should’ve been able to. There’s a few things I told him that felt more like generic answers to the question such as buying new clothes and going to the gym more.
Ever since then, I’ve been thinking to myself where confidence comes from, and I believe it comes from happiness.
You can’t teach someone happiness. You can’t teach them how to smile, how to be positive and how to truly be confident. That has to come from within themselves.
It’s been just over 2 months since I last posted and here I am again. I’m on the final stretch of my time in London and I’m counting down the days until I can leave.
So I had an impressive daygame student at the weekend, a lad who has never done any daygame before. I was quite startled at quick he took to it and I took plenty of pictures of him roaming around hitting on lovely English and foreign women. I enjoy it and hate it at the same time, the enjoyment comes from seeing another guy take to daygame and do well as I did when I first started 5 years ago or so. The initial fear of daygame, the first approach, the nervousness, the delight when it goes well and the eagerness to not stop, to not have a lull, to keep on hitting on every pretty girl that takes your fancy. The hate part is purely selfish, I want to concentrate on our lad’s improvement so I want him to control the emotions that come from hitting on that 9 even though that’s a girl I’d like to be interacting. I don’t want to be hitting on a girl walking past him when he’s in a conversation. Simple rules to ensure that his confidence doesn’t get blown by me being an ass.