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“Ah! I’m Jealous! You’re So Lucky!”

June 14, 2014 By Sundance Kid 7 Comments

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If there’s one thing that I can’t stand people saying to me, it’s that I’m “so lucky” to be in the position that I’ve put myself in.

After working tirelessly last year, I no longer have to rely on working a corporate job. This gives me a great amount of flexibility in the hours that I work, the work that I do, how much money I make for myself and most importantly: whereabouts in the world I live.

Last year, I was working 10-12 hour days under a manager that was victimising me simply because he didn’t like me. I tried speaking up, but it only succeeded in plunging me further in the bad books at work. I was going through hell.

After these mentally draining days at work where my social life was taking a massive hit because of the hours I was working, I would get home at 2am and…do some more work. I would finish work, go back home and instead of relaxing, watching TV, playing my PS3 or hanging out with a girl, I would do some more work.

I had a vision for how I wanted to live my life, and I worked hard to make it a reality. My housemate saw the progress I was making and I tried helping him out down the same path, but he would come up with excuses. “I’ve got x to do”, “I haven’t got the time after work”, “If I’m free this weekend, I’ll do it”.

The difference between me and him was that I really wanted it. I wanted to live freely and was prepared to make sacrifices in order to achieve that freedom. He was working less hours per day than me, and yet I was the one who found the time to make serious efforts in improving my working situation.

If you have a goal, you can’t simply wait for it to present itself to you. You can’t just wait for “the right time” to start working at it. That perfect moment will never come. It really boils down to this: sit your ass down and work at it.

That’s all there is to it. There’s no such thing as “I can do this” or “I can’t do this”. What I’ve learned in life is that what a situation boils down to really is “I want this” or “I don’t want this”.

If you want something, you go and get it and you have it. I always laugh when people tell me they’re the kind of person that “when I want something, I go and get it”. Yet they’re living a mediocre life, paying attention to mediocre struggles, and trapped inside a mediocre mind. Of course, if that’s what they actually want and they have it, then I’m wrong here. But, I don’t think anyone doesn’t “want” better.

For most things in life, if your attitude is that you “want” something but you’re not prepared to work for it, you may as well just say “I wish I had that”. That’s how effective you are when you say you desire something but don’t take any action.

If you say you want something, but don’t go for it, then you don’t really want it after all as far as I’m concerned.

That’s the difference between winners and losers. Winners don’t have dreams, they have targets. And they work at making those targets a reality because they want it. If you really, truly desire something, then you will work hard to have it. New job? New car? New lifestyle? You’ll see the short term pain required to achieve the long term gain.

The problem is, many people don’t want to hear about, talk about, or make any effort. What they’ll do instead, as you improve your life, is tell you what I’ve written in the title of the post.

I was catching up with a few people recently, telling them the stories I’ve had from this year so far, and I was told that I was “lucky” for being able to live where I want and see so many places. It really pissed me off.

I told the girl that said it that luck was nothing to do with where I am. I’m the product of hard work and dedication to a target. Calling someone “lucky” for being in a better position than you in life is disrespectful, in my opinion. It takes away all the hard work that you’ve done and you’re simply living a great lifestyle because lady luck was on your side.

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I’ll tell you who’s lucky: a prince being born into royalty; a lottery winner; someone being born with good genetics; casino gamblers; a chance meeting with someone valuable to you; and so on.

People will use the word “luck” for the sake of ego-protection. They don’t want to have to admit that if they put in a little bit more work, then they too could have the things that the “lucky” people have. There is no esoteric among us (though there’s certainly a case for royalty) that are just gifted the world and everything that they want. There’s no such thing as privileged positions. Every famous or rich person you see has worked hard to get there. You just see the product of that hard work.

I believe that it would hurt too many people for them to admit “that famous/rich person, I too could have what s/he has if only I could be bothered to work towards it”. As I said, instead, people will hide behind the word “luck”.

I’m not lucky to be able to travel around the world whenever I want. I put myself into this position. You can too if that’s what you really want.

Sundance Kid

The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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Daygame Mastery by Krauser – review

April 14, 2014 By bojangles 7 Comments

A few months ago, Krauser released a huge book (it’s a goliath at 460 pages) dedicated to daygame using the London Daygame Model. I’ve known him for many years and having purchased and read his previous offering – Daygame Nitro – I did not hesitate to pay the £60/$100 this book costs. For a few years now, he’s been leading the advancements in daygame as a science, if you could call it that and having seen him in set, knowing how intelligent and well thought out his ideas are, this made it an easy decision.

I won’t lie, it was a struggle at first to get my paws into it, due to time constraints and skimming through certain parts. However I’ve read it a couple of times over the past months and used it to mould certain parts of my daygame skills which I felt were lacking. I’ve learnt a hell of a lot which I myself could not put into words, actions that I already knew I was performing but could not explain. Krauser’s done it all in this book, his attention to detail is concise and as he says in the introduction – “Everything I write must be what I actually do and think.”

The first part of the book starts off with Vibe. Here he explains the mechanics of how daygame interactions work and the where the basis comes from. What you start to notice as you read through this section is the neat little hints outside of the main paragraphs that explain certain terms that he’s using and how to use them in a set. He uses metaphors brilliantly to help you visualise how to approach getting the right mindset.

The targeting section of Vibe was a part I really enjoyed. Here he shows the different types of women you will meet on the streets, the characteristics that they display for you to identify them and how to mould your approach to each type. Here’s where little segments on ‘avoidance weasel’ start to come in, these are great little tips that help you start approaching leading into the next segment which is Approach Anxiety. This is a short segment in comparison to others in the book, but let’s just say he cuts right through the bullshit and gives you real solutions on combating it.

Part two of the book centres around the street, stopping a girl, opening her and moving through the phases to either extract her or take her number. The wealth of information here is astonishing, if you’re an intermediate daygamer, you’ll probably consider yourself advanced after digesting this part of the book. Again the helpful tips are jotted around these pages and relevant to the part of the book you’re in. You can see he’s taken time to present the information so that’s useful and not just splattered around making it disjointed, it’s something that really adds to value of this book.

This part of the book really stands out because it can be easily recreated on the streets, he’s dropped a few templates, tells you how to stand, how not to come off creepy and how you manage the interaction. Here you learn how to go from being the one doing most of the talking to switching it to her investing heavily. It’s something I learnt from his previous book and from himself and I do use it myself in sets to great effect.

The third part of the book is what he calls the ‘Intermission’. This revolves around text game and long game. Krauser is a master at long game, keeping sets that he opened last year, still simmering just waiting for him to re-enter the scene. Here he gives you the tools to do the same with that girl you opened in Poland last year, who still sends you little messages now and then on Facebook/WhatsApp.

My text game was appalling the last time I hung out with Nick, he’ll tell you so too! I’ve improved considerably since then being as it was quite a long time ago but hell, 40 pages on texting and you really start to realise why the fuck I’m still shit at it. Yes he’s got a blueprint for that too and it’s fucking excellent, however it’s also malleable to you. I’ve followed it for my recent daygame successes and it’s been a bit like driving a car in GTA, there are no red lights, everything is fucking green.

The long game section is brilliant, it’s something he’s shown on his blog before. I’ve been using it since I first saw him wind out a story to a girl about a trip to Sicily and the effect it had on her. My own experimentations with it have drawn parallels to what he’s had. I was not as good as controlling the frame possibly as he has been but trying to immerse myself in this section, I’m very confident for my future endeavours with long game. I can’t lie and say I’ve tried out it recently, I’ve not hard the opportunity but will definitely do so once I return from my summer in Europe.

The next part of the book revolves around the ‘Date’. Here he helps you to distinguish between a slut and a good girl as part of your ‘Pre-date calibration’. Here for me is where you really see his experiences with daygame and how much he’s thought about the processes, the women, the attraction as he lays it all out. His date model follows a similar route to ours here at the 3 Bromigos (we’ve got similar beginnings and tutelage in our paths in game).

You learn about how to keep her attention and how to manage your interactions in each venue. There’s making her fight for you attention in one to physically and verbally escalating throughout. He gives you a swathe of options here on how to have fun dates that all lead in the direction of what you want. Which of course is

Close – Here’s where you’ll start identifying nuclear shit tests, fly through any last minute derailments. Bedroom escalation and plowing through any last minute resistance there are all covered. It’s about as detailed as you will find anywhere on the internet.

He has a special situations chapter to end the book. Here you’ll learn how to deal with silly girls who play what he calls ‘silly buggers’, how to fine tune to girls and creative gambits. You also get help on how to fuck over cockblockers on your dates and forcing the SDL – that golden grail of daygame. The last section of this chapter is quite enjoyable but also keeps you centred. He goes through the path of being a daygamer and hits home with the balances required and how game will not make you happy. This is a must read section for anyone buying this book, in fact read it over and over.

Finally he pays respect to the guys who’ve helped with the creation of the book, the ideas he’s learnt, developing his daygame and his mentors. Our Jimmy Mac gets a mention in there, the lucky sod.

My score: 10

I can’t rate this book any less than perfect for this moment in time. I thought of Daygame Nitro just as highly but when it comes to the London Daygame Model, it is constantly evolving and new ideas and concepts are continually added. Daygame Mastery is the complete guide to daygame and the best book on ‘Game’ I have ever read. I’ve seen complaints about the price being set at £60/$100. So much knowledge has been put into this book that even an advanced daygamer would feel they still got more value back than they paid. It’s detailed as you can fucking get and that does not mean you’ll become King of Daygame after a one read. I recommend this to all daygamers at an intermediate level, you’ll improve fast and start to be more aware of where you’re going wrong and where you’re going right (sometimes you just don’t know). If you’re a beginner, we can help, it’s worth a purchase but you’ll be overwhelmed when you’ve not really opened any girls on the street.

You can purchase the book here – Daygame Mastery and Daygame Mastery (disclaimer we make no money off this product, not even the link).

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Bojangles is the brown bromigo. He enjoys MMA and cocktails, together if possible.

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The “Manosphere” and Unmasking

December 22, 2013 By Sundance Kid 59 Comments

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When I was first introduced to the “manosphere”, I thought that everyone would be like me: striving for excellence and hell-bent on self improvement. The more I’ve been around, the more I’ve realised that the whole thing is a facade.

It’s a bitter place, mostly written by bitter guys. Retelling stories of “being alpha” and an asshole to girls is a front for the bitterness most feel at the hands of our opposite gender. Mostly due to not being successful with good looking girls. This sounds like a trivial and cliche attack you’d expect from a girl who’s stumbled upon the “manosphere”, but it’s true. There are very few legit people whose lifestyles match those of which they’re talking about. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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And Brutus Is An Honourable Man

December 2, 2013 By Sundance Kid 6 Comments

A few months ago, I was going through a really stressful time at work. I find it incredibly hard to be told what to do by people I have no respect for, and when I had to keep my silence for the sake of my job, I couldn’t bear it anymore.

I was dreading work every single day. I’d get into fits of rage over the smallest of things, my thoughts were irrational and I fell into a really bad slump.

I believe it’s one of the most mentally draining things to be somewhere you don’t want to be. It’s even more mentally draining if the person who holds your job in his hands is deriving pleasure from having the power to put you into a state of misery.

It all started with a simple request: to move to a different desk so I didn’t have to sit next to a certain woman. The reasons for not wanting to sit next to her don’t matter, but I was told I couldn’t move. I pushed and pushed for a legitimate reason to be denied the move but my manager was thinking up excuse after excuse after excuse. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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Calling The Elephant In The Room Out

November 29, 2013 By Sundance Kid 3 Comments

Every day, you will come across a shithouse. People in general are shithouses. They will lie to you constantly to avoid an uncomfortable truth and avoid facing an awkward situation. More importantly, too many people allow others to be absolute shithouses to them and let them get away with it.

Some of you may not be familiar with the term “shithouse” in the context I’m using it. So, let me clear it up for you.

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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Power Shift

November 27, 2013 By Sundance Kid 11 Comments

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As I draw ever closer to leaving work, I’ve noticed a shift of power in my life.

I’m 6 more working days away from leaving and in the past couple of weeks I’ve felt the chains that were bounding me loosen more and more each day. It’s a very liberating feeling.

The people who have been holding these chains tightly around me no longer have that control and power over me and they know it. They don’t like it either because I’m now free to be who I am without worrying about consequences like getting a disciplinary or suspension, and other such bollocks. [Read more…]

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The Sundance Kid is the youngest Bromigo and an avid supporter/gobshite of Liverpool FC. Spanish girls apply within.

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People Watching

November 22, 2013 By Sundance Kid 6 Comments

People watching is a funny old thing and it’s one of my favourite things to do when I’m out and about. It can give you a real perspective on life. [Read more…]

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Happiness

November 5, 2013 By Sundance Kid 7 Comments

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A few weeks ago, I went out with one of Bojangles’ students from a bootcamp and he asked me “what’s the one bit of advice you would give to improve my confidence?”

I felt like I’d been put on the back foot because I couldn’t answer his question as well as I thought I should’ve been able to. There’s a few things I told him that felt more like generic answers to the question such as buying new clothes and going to the gym more.

Ever since then, I’ve been thinking to myself where confidence comes from, and I believe it comes from happiness.

You can’t teach someone happiness. You can’t teach them how to smile, how to be positive and how to truly be confident. That has to come from within themselves.

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I’m Back – 30 Days of Hell Left

November 4, 2013 By Sundance Kid 2 Comments

It’s been just over 2 months since I last posted and here I am again. I’m on the final stretch of my time in London and I’m counting down the days until I can leave.

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Hiatus

August 23, 2013 By Sundance Kid 5 Comments

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You may have noticed that we’ve not been as active as we were a few months ago.

There are a few reasons for this and when the three of us made a plan for this year in around November last year, we knew it’d be a tough year this year. We described it as a “foundation year” in that this year would prepare us for the years succeeding 2013. [Read more…]

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