I’ve had a few thoughts about R/K selection girls recently. I know I’ve been a quiet for quite a long time, not much posting from me on here nor around the manosphere. That’s because I moved to Central/Eastern Europe and landed myself in a 9-5 office job. Yes, it seems awful, the daily grind of office life, tap tap tapping away at your desk whilst talking to some twat half way around the world. Thankfully its not as bad as it seems, my work life balance is the best it’s been since I started working and somehow it’s due to the government of this country. I’ve planted myself in Krakow and it’s certainly been an interesting couple of years here. At this moment in time, I can’t see myself moving anywhere else, it’s as though I’ve settled…
To be fair, I wouldn’t call it settled. I’d been a lone soldier out here until Teedub made the jump and decided to join me in plundering the 7 rated riches that this city has to offer. Though as winter comes round in Poland, it’s harsh, -20C (Nascimento baulks at this as he’s Canadian) and the streets are dead. The bars and clubs are similar, funnily enough all the whores also end up getting boyfriends around this time. The difference between winter and summer for game is as stark as day and night. During the first winter I spent here, I managed to have an 8 as a buddy and plenty of dates on the side, that was nice because she’d take up my lazy time when I couldn’t be arsed to pursue new leads. This winter though I considered how can someone like me who has pushed myself as man to the R selected side of the spectrum find myself some K selection girls for the winter.
From the outset this seems simple, I had a grand conversation with Krauser about it during his last visit. We agreed its a fluid spectrum and that certain features of a girl make her predisposed to being R selected or K Selected. There are factors such as ovulation, hormones, current sex life and family background. So if I want to get K selection girls than I just needed to have good filtering and ensure I play the role of K selected type of guy. However is the spectrum fluid for guys? Is there a linear path that runs from being a K selected guy to being an R selected guy? Dependent on the conditions, a girl can move between both, it’s upon the guy to identify where she is sitting (A great post from Krauser identifies this).
For us men, I don’t think it’s that simple. For some of us unfortunately we fall into what the Rawness calls the ‘Jump Zone’. Everything those of us know that are in this zone know when it comes to getting girls revolves around adventure sex. We are the playboys that women want to have fun with. Our motive is to get hot girls into bed fast, fuck them like they’ve never been fucked before and them to move on. Subconsciously or for some women consciously, the female mind has an ability to recognize this and to throw you into a box that they’ll open straight away, open when they want quick hot sex or that they’ll never open (K selection girls). This isn’t that simple for men, moving towards being that guy just to get K selection girls feels like going back to what you were before. Most of us before were guys who got no girls, never mind aiming for just K selection girls. There is no linear path for us – moving from being who I am now to who I was now would just get me no girls. Not the pretty things that I want but just probably an Xbox, some weed and lots of masturbation. Regardless I’ve improved myself so much as man (thanks to all you gents out there around the manosphere) that there is no turning back to that guy anyway. Anyway I thought I’d give it a try, for the short term though I was highly skeptical is was even possible (Bodi told me on one of his visits that he believes it to be impossible).
Tone down your R selected side Bojangles, I hear you say? The problem with this is that those attributes are what attracts the girls. I say this after 4 months of fucking about with how I approached women and the kind of things I tried to do with them on dates and so on. I read the good bibles on pickup (the shit ones) that help you get a girlfriend and thought I’d try the processes out. Not so much escalating as to end up fucking girls and not too less so that I end up friendzoned. Agreeing to meet again for second dates rather than taking home and devastatingly banging her ass. All of my attempts ended in failure to actually get anywhere, I guess I truly am in the jump off zone. This isn’t so much a bad thing as long term commitment and being a ‘onegina’ is something I have no thought of, especially in a city of sluts. However there are some of you that are doing this easily (Jimmy being one) and being unable to do this seems like madness when you consider how far one has come since learning of and using game.