Gentlemen and Cads,
Some guys do it, some guys just talk about doing it. Here’s a man with heart who’s out there doing it. The second of the Brokinetic guest posts.
You leave the house, collect many numbers, date a couple of girls and smash a few pussies. If that’s your aim, quit now. Don’t look back, just go. Day game is not that simple. Some people have problems even stepping outside their door. I am glad that I wasn’t one of those guys. The next step is to stop or run over to a girl and talk to her, deal with approach anxiety and soak in the pressure of talking to a random stranger at the same time behaving as though it is completely normal. Easy to say, well, it’s not that simple. No alcohol, no loud music and out of the normal social conventions. It’s not in our nature to suffer these kinds of ordeals.
That’s why day game is difficult. It’s not for the weak-hearted. You have to accept rejections, lots of them. You have to deal with flaky numbers. If it doesn’t, then you have to do it all again on the next date. The process is repetitive and some people are not capable of tolerating the emotional burden that comes with rejection. Sitting and drinking a refreshing mint lemonade recently, I chatted with a guy reading an economic book using Roosh’s elderly opener. Nothing gay in it, but after the chat I realized that cold approaching a girl aided me to talk to any random stranger as I would to a friend.
I no longer sweat when talking to a hot girl I’ve just met. I introduced a friend of mine to day game few months back. He was overjoyed when he saw me conversing with a random cute girl. Despite being able to see and hear the chit chat, he succumbed to pressure when he tried it himself. I saw him in my own shoes just a couple of months ago. I was happy to have come some way from that but felt some concern for my friend.
Talking about friends, the next step is probably finding those fellow bastard daygamers. You create an account in a local pick up forum, check for the closest lair and start meeting people. Be prepared, you will meet more weirdos that you think, and if you don’t, then you are one of them. A good wing-man can take your game to a next level easily, a bad one can be the worst of demons ever to emerge from hell. Eject if you don’t feel right. Follow your instincts on this. A good wing-man helps you to get into an everlasting social mood. I go solo nowdays, I have housemates who I used as mood elevators. This helps me to get my energy and vibe up for day game later on. Make the right friends and learn from them especially if you are just starting off.
You go to a party, sit at a corner and stare all around, you keep staring, you don’t talk with anyone and just be quiet. Voilà! You just mastered the art of engineering a creepy vibe. Creating good vibes within yourself is the most important element of day-game to me, it is. You are the projector. The girl absorbs your light. A happy light will make her happy, a melancholic light will do the reverse. During my first month I remember freaking out a girl. She paced 100 meters away from me in 10 seconds, maybe 20 seconds, but fast. I was nervous, non-existent eye contact and a creepy voice. An excellent state of mind or vibe comes from various factors. You can watch inspirational Youtube videos maybe. I used to watch tons of them. You can listen to adrenaline pumping songs, dance around, tell jokes or workout. I did all of these. I admit, they helped, but the real help will only come when you put yourself in front of the girl, again, again and again. Each and every approach will tell you that talking to girls is not scary and risky. Every good reaction will build your inner confidence and every bad one will teach you valuable lessons. There is no bad experience. In the end, girls are sweet beautiful beings who can cook, sew, and sing for you. They will even give you blow jobs, how’s that?
I will be honest, day game is not the most efficient way to meet women. You will have to do 1000 approaches to get through the initial stages. I am reaching the end of this stage. There will be days where you encounter streaks of blow-outs. You are basically asking a girl to have sex with you without any commitments. She is taking a risk with a complete stranger.
I endured 6 days of continuous blow outs during my trip to Eastern Europe. On the 7th day, I got an instant date on my 3rd approach of the day. It did not end up in lay. Getting rid of nervousness and learning how to charm the girl is one thing. Getting results is another. You will still get rejected no matter your model looks or top level game. At the beginning there will be a small percentage of girls who will fancy you. Your deal is to get them. Ask the honest experts, their statistics will show around 1-3 % of lay counts from total approaches made. You will face moments of uncertainty, you will face meltdowns from time to time. You are on the right track if you come upon all these obstacles.
Now, let’s talk about why I am drawn to day game. If you ask me honestly, yes, day game is self-development but you will still want to fuck as many hot girls as you can. Day game gives you that privilege. Night game is done in a pond, Tinder is similar to a fast current river. It can be polluted. Day game meanwhile is analogous to approaching girls in an ocean. Make sure to get a diving suit one day, you shall enjoy scuba diving. There is a vast range of fishes in the ocean. Your ability to catch them depends on your exquisite fisherman skills and of course a bit of luck. A mermaid will be the cherry of the cake, tell me if you catch one.
Next, going out in the day does not cost you anything but only your time. Talking and seducing a girl in the street does not empty your pockets. And I am not talking about sales girls, prostitutes or homeless people.
Day game builds confidence, walking is good for health, less competition from fellow sausage owners, etc. We can keep on talking. Rather than reading this, go out there and immerse yourself in the adventure.
Day game is like an iron man competition. It’s a long, hard, tiring journey, some will take it, not many will make it. But if you do, well…..