I’ve just returned from a 3 week jaunt in a magnificent European destination with my pal Krauser. It’s nice to get away from the toil of making millions and spend time with a mate who has similar ideals and much more wisdom than me when it comes to the world of pickup. We had a few set backs notably with illness but a lot was learned and a lot of our ideas and knowledge about game were cemented. One thing that we’ve both been practicising and perfecting over the past year is R selection game.
Not everyone who gets into pickup has the same objectives. Many men I understand just want to get a girlfriend or want to be able to fuck a few girls before finding someone to settle down with. Personally I think there is no issue with that and that’s fine, that’s not something that I have my eyes on (at this moment in time). My aim is to get the best and quickest return on every investment that I make and that’s why my pickup strategy is R selection game.
It’s important for you to establish a goal when you choose to learn game and take a path in pickup. There are two paths I believe that are equally fulfilling, every man has his own ideals, own passions and needs. Both paths can fulfill those desires.
A pickup strategy that follows K selection game I believe is ideal for most prospective gamers and existing gamers. This is where you frame yourself as a potential boyfriend in your daygame encounters. You’ll go on dates, hold hands with girls in public, spend time investing on an emotional level, it’s equivalent to old school courting in my eyes. What will happen here is that you won’t burn many sets, you won’t get many flakes and you’ll be working on a long path to get those girls hooked on you. Whether that’s as a provider or as a provider, it’s a strategy that works and even nice guys can pull it off.
(Note that a K selection pickup strategy does not mean you can’t have multiple relationships, you can.)
An R selection pickup strategy is for those that want something different. I firmly believe it’s the way forward in daygame to get laid with sexy girls without commitments. One off bangs, booty calls when you’re in her town, girls with boyfriends – you’re aiming for these outcomes.
You’re working on ‘yes’ and ‘maybe’ girls, you won’t waste your time on trying to convert ‘no’ girls. Here you’ll maximise your SMV and use your game skills to their full extent to bring sexual tension into every set. Your dates will be all about getting the girl into bed, no setting up for a day 3/4.
The girls will know that you’re a player, you won’t hide that fact but you won’t rub their noses into it either. You won’t need to lie, they’ll know your intentions, your body language, your touch, your eyes, your words, everything will indicate exactly what you want. No more fucking about just fucking is the order of business for the day.
You’ll have to approach more (you’ll need experience in daygame 1000+ sets at least), you’ll get burnt more in sets but most of the time you will hook the hottest chicks in town. You’ve got to note this is not empty sex, there’s affection and a true connection, it’s just that you and the girl know it’s all about. It fucking works. There’s no doubt about it, I fine tuned my sets well by the end of the trip and I’ve got a lot to thank Krauser for.
The trip was successful, our numbers were consistent and I’m happy that I’ve chosen the right pickup strategy. You’ve got to decide which path you want to take and whether you’ve got the confidence to be that guy. A lot of it will depend on what kind of guy you are. I’m not great at putting my thoughts into words but I hope this will help you on the right track.
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