Night game is something Bojangles and I excel at when we’re in a bar. We’ve been doing it long enough to work out what the most effective techniques are and how to use the environment to our advantage.
Now, when we work our night game routine, very little of it is actually approaching girls. We either do it with them approaching us in mind, or working things to a point where we’re pretty much guaranteed not to be blown out. I like the easier things in life.
A large part of our night game is building value in a bar, taking it away from everybody else, and having girls shoot us a series of different looks and other indicators of interest. Once it reaches boiling point, then that’s when we’ll head over to talk to a couple of girls or a group of them.
It massively helps you if you have a bar on lockdown. If you know the bar staff, the owner, the dancers, the promoter, or whoever else works there, then it will only go in your favour. Turning up late to a packed bar and having all the barmen and the owner greet you is fucking awesome and makes your life a whole lot easier. Everyone will be looking at you. The girls will be intrigued, and the guys will feel deflated because they know they’re not the coolest dudes in the room.
As a pair, Bojangles and I are very keen not to seem like “those guys” that sit down together in a bar silently and just look at women. Too many beta guys do this. Although we’re not looking at girls in the same way as the betas (i.e. in desperation and thirst), we want to keep our value high.
We have a lot of things to talk about together, but there’s a time and a place for certain conversations. Spending a lot of time together too, we can run out of things to say to keep each other entertained – particularly in a loud bar where you want to keep conversation to a minimum.
Bojangles devised a little night game technique to make it seem like you’re occupied and also to keep your value high. It’s proved immense in our night game routine and has a lot of girls curious about us because we’re not “those guys” just sitting around waiting to be opened by a group of girls. We’re living in our own world. Coupled with the value from the bar staff, we seem a level above everyone else.
The technique is very simple. If you’re stuck for words with each other, and don’t want to just sit round twiddling your thumbs, keep the conversation flowing by just talking to one another like this:
“Blah blah blah”
“Blahdy blah blah motherfucking blah blah”
Sounds stupid, I know. But it has a lot of positives.
You can’t help but laugh at each other when you talk this way. Laughing among yourselves with girls looking over at you creates a big interest. Who are these guys? Why are they only paying attention to themselves? Why aren’t they looking at us? What are they talking about? What’s so funny?
People always want to be in on a joke.
This will keep your value high in a bar, keep your energy up and ensure that you don’t look like boring twats. No girl wants to be with a boring twat.
As the night goes on, you’ll realise that you’re getting a lot more looks. Maintain eye contact with girls, lean closer to your mate and keep doing the “blah blah” technique. With a cocky smile, the girl will think you’re talking about her and her friends. She’ll become flustered but won’t stop looking over at you to see if you’re still interested in her or talking about her.
That’s when you strike. Head over to the table that she’s at and hit on her and her friends. She’ll already have told her friends about you. Her friends have probably noticed you already. It breeds a bit of familiarity because they know who you are (to a degree) before you’ve hit on them and makes the process a lot smoother.
The key is to build up that value first. By displaying your value in the bar, you separate yourselves from the other groups of guys in there that will be sitting around with each other, drinking and staring at girls as if to say “I wish I could have her”. You’re the cool group who are having fun, and people want to be a part of that.
Blah blah motherfucking blah. It’s really simple.