Once most guys have learned about Game and how to attract beautiful girls, they get a superiority complex. They feel like they’ve made it in life and have finally pulled away from the realms of mediocrity by being something only a few men can be.
It’s like they’ve been granted access into a world where only a few chosen men before them were allowed to see what Game has now let them see. It was just the esoteric before them, but now any average Joe can discover Game and feel like he’s made it in life.
What Game does is open a guy’s eyes to female behavioural patterns and allows them to influence their decisions based on that understanding of their psyche. It’s nothing more than that. Having this knowledge, your life doesn’t really change much outside of getting girls.
The only thing that separates Game-aware guys and “normal”/”average” guys is the fact that they have more confidence to chat to a girl in a sexual manner, or approach a girl on the street stone cold sober. They’ll have more success with women than those that don’t have an understanding or any knowledge of Game. At the end of the day though, that’s it.
Are you an alpha male now that you have Game? No. Absolutely not. Imitating behaviours of an “alpha male” does not make you an alpha male. Just because you have the confidence to be able to stand up tall in front of a girl and not put up with bullshit doesn’t make you an alpha male. Game doesn’t make you an alpha male, but that’s for a different post.
There’s a mindset among most Game-aware guys to say the right thing. Instead of having it internally set into their personalities, they constantly rely on lines and don’t have the natural instinct to know how to approach the situation.
There is a distinct difference between guys who know and use Game, and guys who have Game as part of their overall makeup (i.e. “naturals” or those who have mastered it and internally embraced it). The guys who are in the former category won’t accept that they’re in that category, but those of us in the latter category can spot them a mile off. And there’s a hell of a lot of more in the former than the latter.
The thing is, from my perspective, that guys who learn Game think they’re now at a much higher level than they are in reality. They still have self-limitations, they’re still the same as the people around them, they still earn the same amount of money and are limited by their careers, only they can chat to girls better than other guys.
So, where does this aid you in life?
You Game women. You can successfully spend your weekends trawling the streets and high fiving your mates when you do an approach, and put on a fake smile when you get rejected to hide the hurt because “you understand Game”. That’s all well and good.
Most guys are happy in this knowledge they have. They walk around feeling superior to all those that they meet, even other Game-aware guys, but in reality they are no better off. I’ve met guys who know about Game and they’ve been very dismissive towards me because it seems like “that’s the thing to do”. I’ve got no room for people like that.
Game gave me my confidence back after a few years of depression. Now that I understand it, I’m using it as a stepping stone to get further in life. Walking around streets all day chatting to girls and bagging an 8 or a 9 in the short term until the next one isn’t the pinnacle of life. There’s a higher level which I’ve written about before that I’m aiming to break into.
You are not a complete man if the only thing in your life that you’ve changed since learning Game is that you have sex with more girls. It doesn’t matter about the quality of them, just that the quantity has increased is enough for most guys to now believe that they’re “alpha” or a complete man. As if Game was the final puzzle piece in their life.
In fact, I think that in a way Game makes you less of a man with the wrong attitude and approach. If you read around the manosphere, you’ll see other guys talking about girls as if they’re absolutely nothing. Their lives are meaningless and are only good for one thing.
It’s a bitter outlook on life and women. Some guys think that by being an asshole to girls is a default mode when you have Game, but it’s not. Some guys are naturally assholes, but those adopting an asshole persona because of “Game” have got it all wrong. I’ve been there, I’ve tried it. It wasn’t for me.
I had the understanding that I don’t have to be an asshole to get girls, but there were certain things I had to eliminate from my character in order to make up for my missing “asshole factor” that gets girls a lot easier.
In America, I imagine it goes down well. But the prophesied Eastern European girls don’t respond to that as well, and these are the girls everyone keeps going on about wanting. You need to be different, more like a real alpha male or as they like to say, “gentleman”. Not in the such of holding doors open for them and all that, but being more sophisticated, dressing well and owning your life. Really knowing who you are and where you’re going. Game can’t give you this, but it can help you realise this.
This post isn’t aimed at anyone in particular. There are blogs I read that offer a lot of value. Some of the writing is good but I can’t accept life advice from them because I think their views of Game are limiting how far they can progress in life and as a person.
I want to be around like minded people that I can go to the top with, not salesman hellbent constantly on seeing how many customers they can get on a Saturday on Oxford Street.
The whole point is, if you want to keep progressing in life, keep improving and always head upwards, you can never be happy with where you are. This is why when I learned game, I asked myself “what’s next?”