If a guy wants to get good with women, who should he speak to?
His mum? His friend that is a girl? His sister? His sister’s friends? A female “pick up coach”?
The answer, as I’m sure you’re aware, is none of the above. The answer is: a guy who is good with women. Pure and simple.
If you want to get good with women, the best way to learn is through someone who is good with women. It’s practically rocket science, isn’t it? It’s not necessarily a hard reason to figure out why you should learn through a guy who is good with women, to get good with women. But I’ll break it down anyway for some of the less educated people that may stumble across this post.
Let’s say you want to trade stocks in the stock market but you have absolutely no clue how to do it. You have the cash ready to invest but you don’t know where to start and you know absolutely none of the market language. Someone could throw the word “market capitalisation” at you and you’d have no clue what it even means.
So, who do you turn to?
Let’s say you book an appointment with your doctor, because they’re known for being helpful. You tell him you’ve got a problem with understanding the stock market and don’t know what the FTSE 100 means. He says he can’t really help you because after all, he’s a doctor.
As luck would have it though, your doctor is a private investor. He’s able to tell you a few things, but you’re still not really sure what the stock market is. You’re still a million miles away from being able to invest without losing all your money. So, you leave just as confused as before.
Your next stop is a shop with a really flashy sign saying “Learn to invest in the stock market”. Okay, it’s quite a long shop name, but you want to learn to invest in the stock market and this shop is apparently offering a service to give you exactly what you want. To top it off, there’s a picture of a woman bearing her cleavage in the shop window to bring in more customers.
So, you go in. You meet with the man who is offering his advice about the stock market but he won’t shut up about himself. All he’s talking about are his qualifications, what books he’s written about the subject after lots of time researching it (copying other people’s ideas and passing them off as his own), and the friends he has who are involved in privately investing in the stock market.
He’ll give you a few examples from the top of his head about shares that have done well recently. So you think to yourself “great, this person obviously knows what they’re doing”. The guy then says to you that he’ll make you a great investor, he’ll show you all the ropes and techniques about how to make a lot of money and then he’ll tell you how much he charges for his time to do all this. But then a question pops into your head.
“Okay, Mr Big Bollocks, how much money have you personally made from the stock market?”
The man stutters and is uncomfortable. “Well, you know, some…”
In your head, your original perception of him being a millionaire through investing in the stock market is beginning to dissipate. Maybe he’s only made a few hundred thousand. Actually, maybe tens of thousands. No?
“Well, actually, I’ve not made a single penny in the stock market” he says to you.
You tell him that you’re not so confident in his ability to help you make money and get an understanding of the stock market. He replies telling you again of his qualifications and asks that if you go to a broker for help, will they even be able to tell you how they do what they do? Sure, they make lots of money, but can they TEACH you? Well, the man with the flashy business with literally no experience in the stock market CAN teach you. After all, he’s written books about it. But in an effort to keep you interested, he’ll tell you that you won’t find help anywhere else because he’s perfected the art of passing knowledge.
Instead, you leave the shop and then you go straight to a brokerage firm, as you should’ve done so to begin with.
If you want to become good with women, don’t take advice from women. They have literally no experience in picking up women so why would you trust their advice? Or, to go one step further, why would you pay a woman to tell you how to pick up women? That’s just madness.
What I will say, however, is that you can learn from a woman’s behaviour. If you like people watching, as I do, then next time you’re at a bar or somewhere where guys are going to be hitting on girls, watch the female behaviour.
Girls are naturally aloof unless there’s a guy with extremely high value she wants to grab the attention of. In such a scenario, they will throw away all dignity and self respect to be noticed by that guy.
This isn’t that common. So, watch a girl’s behaviour when one of her orbiters or some beta hits on her or just even talks to her. She’s normally cool, calm, collected and of higher value than the needy guys around her. This is the kind of behaviour you want to emulate.
I’m a product of Bojangles’ training. I’m not bothered with teaching but I can vouch for him and we do have a few bootcamp posts up where you can see some reviews, testimonials and pictures of his bootcamp students at work.
At the 3 Bromigos, we have a lot of connections within “the manosphere”. This is because one of us ran one of the most successful pick up companies in London before the members went their own ways around the world. I’ve heard stories about some of the “bigger” guys in the pick up/manosphere community that none of you would have any clue about, thanks to the connections we have.
If you want to learn game through reading or by taking a bootcamp, look no further than us or by checking out some of these guys below who I’ll personally vouch for. They will help you become better at picking up women (some for a fee) or will help you understand the importance of self improvement, happiness and becoming a well rounded individual. This is stuff you just cannot learn from women.
Check these guys out to learn game and how to pick up women:
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