As I come close to my first year anniversary into game, things haven’t gone the way I thought they would when I first started out and imagined what my life would be like, and how I would incorporate views and routines to be a “product” of the manosphere, as many people seem to be.
What I mean by this is that when guys learn game, they will gravitate towards certain views of the world and they will naturally do the routines and lines and what-have-you that they can pick up from Youtube videos and other blogs.
That’s not for me.
It was me for several months, maybe up until February/March this year. I was adhering to the “manosphere guidelines” that are set out for me by some of the very popular, and very life-changing, blogs out there.
I became robotic, I became a person carved by the manosphere into exactly what it wanted me to be. I was doing street stops in the way I was told to do street stops, I was told how to escalate and when, how to approach certain situations, how to hold myself and so on and so forth.
It’s not a bad thing and there’s nothing wrong with it. It’s actually a very good step-by-step guide in how to get into the gaming world and how to be successful with women. Most guys, I assume, stick to these sorts of routines and read daily the blogs that have helped shape their lives and opinions.
What’s the next trick to try out? How successful is it? What’s the close percentage?
That sort of bollocks doesn’t interest me. I take it how it is; a man chatting to a woman. A guy chatting to a girl. Whatever way you want to look at it.
Most guys, from what I have observed (and I have observed a lot), are happy in this new found knowledge of how to pick up girls that are “out of their league”. They are content to have improved themselves from how they used to be, and they are content to continue in their jobs and to apply these new techniques of being able to get with girls that were once out of their reach. Their lives are the same, but they are no longer pussies and they can get girls.
Again, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, I would like to see more guys like this.
However, this is not for me.
I am grateful for the information and knowledge that is out there and has helped me better myself. However, I’ve had a theory for a few years now and it’s grown more from the observations I’ve made in recent months in the manosphere and seeing what kind of lives people lead when they have game.
Some are happy to continue their lives and pick up girls in their free time that they would never have thought possible to pick up years ago, some are happy to make dating businesses to teach guys how to do pick up, and some go and travel and pick up girls from around the world.
That’s fine. I’m not knocking it, but it falls into what I would call “Tier 2”, and Tier 2 is not for me. Let me explain what I believe the three tiers of the human social hierarchy are.
Tier 1 is the level that the “plugged in” Matrix workers are in. The every day person, stuck in the rat race, the betas and the girls who are content in their lives of conforming and consuming. Being consumers is what they live for, and that is all they are programmed for. Some will break into Tier 2, such as many of the manosphere dwellers.
Tier 2 is the level that most of the manosphere is in. They can see past the bullshit of the world for what it really is, they understand social dynamics and they understand why people behave and act the way they do. They use this to their advantage in life whether it’s getting women, money or whatever else it is they want.
Tier 3 is a whole new level. It’s where the elite are. It’s where the rich and famous hang out, and you have to have power or status to be in Tier 3 through having a lot of money, owning businesses that attract beautiful women like high-end bars and modelling companies and being within a social circle of people who have phonebooks full of similar people. Think hundred thousand dollar yacht parties and think hundred thousand dollar club nights.
Over the past few days here in Croatia, Bojangles and I have made an extremely powerful contact who has given us a little teaser into this Tier 3 lifestyle. We have been speaking to models and one famous TV star here that are on a completely different level beauty wise.
Now, when I came to Croatia last week, I was in awe of some of the girls I saw walking around. I was seeing girls that were 9s walking round and my jaw was dropping.
These are girls I have access to, and have stopped on the street, have got their details and have met, and still am meeting up with them. It’s a wonderful thing, but to be honest, I’d be lying if I said I never thought I’d be able to get these kinds of girls. They are a lot better than western girls in every department, and I would say on another level.
But the models and the TV star we met, are on an even higher level. Seeing some of the girls in the streets you’d think that this was the peak, but there is a whole new platform above this.
When I talked earlier about guys being in Tier 2 and being content with that, I’m not content with that. I never have been. My whole life I’ve always wanted to get into Tier 3 and I truly believe that that is where I’ll end up. That is what will make me feel like my life has been a success.
Learning game and improving myself as a person enabled me the chance to get onto the precipice of this social circle. I’m by no means “in” it yet, but the way I behave differently towards these high-end people has got them curious about me.
In the same way I will call CEOs and Directors at the investment bank I work in “mate”, I treated these people just as they are; humans. That’s all they are, so why would I help polish them like the rest of the people were doing? I’m trying to use them to help me further my life, not worship them.
The two people I am in contact with who made this happen are famous in Croatia, and it has helped a lot in name dropping when I’ve picked up girls here when they ask what I’ve been up to. The man is a very powerful person in Croatia and has a lot of solid contacts, and the woman, the TV star, is one of the most prolific women in these parts.
The woman was sitting alone in the bar and was getting recognised by different groups people. They were trying to call her over to invite her for a drink but she was politely declining again and again. She, however, saw me and Bojangles talking to the owner of the bar, the powerful guy.
Once he’d left, I asked the barman her name and called her over. She came over and spoke to us for about 45 minutes and told me that no one had ever talked to her the way I was speaking to her. It was quite amusing. I’d put myself over her immediately, taken away that celebrity status that she has and had her intrigued. As it happens, she’s dating a high profile person, so I wasn’t hitting on her and it wasn’t my intention to.
I could befriend her and get access to something a lot better, and something that lasts a lot longer. Over the next several nights, I’d seen her and talked to her again for different periods of time, often about 20-30 minutes. It got the Tier 1 people, particularly the girls, intrigued about me when I waltzed over to her as if I knew her really well and she greeted me in that way, as opposed to how she would if I was a “fan”. The people watching assumed I was in a position of high power and suddenly I was hot property.
I was teasing her for being a smart-phone girl always on Instagram and Facebook. She showed me the hundred or so friend requests she has on Facebook that she hasn’t replied to, the messages and whatnot. It was crazy. You think the average hot western girl gets a lot of attention, and like everything else I’ve said, this was a whole new level. But now, I have her on my Facebook which again has really helped my status in this town when talking to girls here.
There is a certain aura that these higher power people possess that separates them from the lower Tiers. They live completely different lives, they are in a completely different world and they are completely separate to the average person. There are some very beautiful girls around, but they don’t possess that aura that these people do.
That’s my target in life; to break into that upper society.
It’s not easy though. There are no freebies in life, I have to offer value back. I’ve given little hints about what I can offer, and had a few brief conversations enough to perk the ears, but it’s a long game.