As I mentioned before, I deleted my OKCupid account and gave you lads one of my openers. I’m guessing you’ve been using it as we’re having hits on that article a lot and having people Google search the opener word for word. Some girls are getting suspicious by the looks of things.
I think it’s time you have another one and it’s one of my favourites because every reply I get from it when I use it is always positive and it always leads to more questions and conversation no matter the reply from the girl. As always though, it’s a better sign if she’s laughing and playful in her reply and asks a couple of questions about you.
However, this isn’t a message you can use off the bat and open a girl with. It’s for when she views your profile and doesn’t send you a message. That’s quite frustrating, right? The best way I’ve found is to call her out on it playfully. I don’t know if it’s anything groundbreaking and if any others are using it or something similar but here it is:
Looking at my profile and not saying hi? Perv.
This gets a ton of different replies, and as I said the majority are positive. For the ones that aren’t giving you much to bite on, plough on anyway because most will carry on responding.
One of the best things is, you can do it as long as she checks out your profile. So that means you can look at her profile first, then she checks you back out, and then you can message her that. I’ve done that a lot and literally only had one girl say to me “yeah but you were looking at mine first” to which I replied “yep, I’m a perv. Guilty” or something like that. I took her on a date and is one of the near hits I got that I mentioned here.
It’s so funny, but when you call a girl a perv, or creepy, or you insult them in any way that they would insult a guy like accusing them of being sex pests, they react so well to it. For example, on first dates, I’ll tell girls not to get too excited because I don’t put out on the first date and they’re always replying “no I don’t!” Flipping the switch works great and making out as if the girl is one to be worried about builds such great playful rapport, I don’t know why more guys don’t do it.
What do other guys do? How are you being separated from them with this reply?
I’ve come home for the weekend and have nothing better to do tonight so, luckily for you guys, I created a fake girl’s profile and clicked on about 100 profiles in the “matches” section baiting these poor thirsty dudes out while I waited for my mum to finish cooking my tea. It didn’t take long for the messages to come in. Here’s a few of the responses:
I used a picture of one of the models I have on my Facebook that looks a bit like Mischa Barton (sorry, Jen) and was getting so many messages literally moments within first joining. It’s a dog-eat-dog world on OKCupid, huh? It makes me more satisfied for getting responses from the “replies selectively” girls.
But the way guys act to a beautiful girl is so cringeworthy, and I can see why when guys like us come around and send them a message that’s “different” from what they’re used to, it gets a positive response. Most guys don’t want to “step out of line” with really hot girls.
Use it wisely, and like before, I’d love to hear of any stories and responses you guys get from it in the comments section below.
Oh, and don’t forget to kick a girl’s ass.