I’ve seen a few things recently around the internet about how to cheat your way into a girl’s bed by making up outright lies to get them to chase you, by saying things like you’ve got a lot of money, you live somewhere expensive, you regularly go on holidays and can take them with you, etc. Check this for example, a loser Jew who pretended to have a cool job and a bucket load of money as well as a swanky place to live in going through women online. don’t lie girls
What’s worse is that there are websites around and even people I’ve encountered from those sites on the streets of London who are charging guys in the thousands for advice about picking up girls, by way of lying to them. I won’t link you to them, but trust me, they’re out there. don’t lie girls
Put the Jew from the example above in front of a woman at a bar and get him to chat her up and take her home with him that night. Get him on the street in front of a girl and get him to build genuine attraction to take her to a pub and finally back to his to get the lay. Put him in a coffee shop next to a cute girl who is reading a book, get him to open her and build attraction to get her number and to take her on a date later that night. don’t lie girls
How do you think he’ll fare? Where he has to stand up in front a woman and outright lie and convince this girl looking at him that he’s a millionaire or whatever absurd lie he’s told. What does his body language say? What do his eyes say? Can he hold himself like some of the best guys around with women? If you don’t think girls can pick up on this, then you’re wrong. don’t lie girls
I think it gives the “PUA community” a bad name. It works, but it will only work to a certain extent. Let’s say you meet a perfect 10 on the street, you tell her lies about yourself to get her interested. You get her on a date. You get her into bed. She wants to see you again, under the illusion you are what you say you are. You fall for her and want to have her around as a long term girlfriend. Do you not think the lies will come out eventually and the relationship fall apart?
It depends what you want to be. You can be the social recluse who sits on his laptop night after night spinning lies about who he really is to girls to get them on a date with him, or you can work on your game and inner self to really improve your life. don’t lie girls
While I don’t want to sound like I’m hating on the guy for doing what he’s doing – it’s obviously working for him – he isn’t a high value guy that I would particularly want to hang out with or isn’t the particular advice I’d be handing out to guys who want to get good with women. lying to girls lying to girls
Imagine handing over a few thousand quid to a guy telling you how he’ll make you better with women, and his advice is that you have to pretend you’re something you’re not, to lie to girls and they will fall for you. Would that be value for money? How will this help you in your every day life? What kind of man are you?
There are techniques such as not disclosing the whole truth to a girl which are just as effective and aren’t lies, which will also help you actually get good with women. For example, I work in an investment bank as a graphic designer. If a girl asks me what I do for work, my response sometimes is “I work at an investment bank”. I’m not lying to her, it’s the truth, but I’m not disclosing all of the information to her about what I do. This leaves her to imagine what I do there and that’s what game is all about, and it’s what girls love to do.
This brings about two responses. One, she will create an image of what I am that is near enough true, or she will give me a shit test such as “you’re the cashier aren’t you?”
Then it’s up to me and my gaming abilities to work myself out of a shit test as a winner. Let me tell you now that getting rewarded for something you’ve worked hard for is much more satisfying. lying to girls
Lying to girls isn’t game or pickup, it’s exactly as it says on the tin. Put yourself around a load of other guys who have worked hard on improving themselves as men and their lives, and how do you think you will feel knowing you don’t measure up? lying to girls
Ambiguity is your friend and there’s absolutely no reason why you should have to flat out lie to a girl to get laid regardless of how self-entitled they are. Lying just papers over the cracks in your own game. You don’t have to fear getting caught, you don’t have to be on your toes all the time trying to remember which lie you told to who, and as I said, the feeling of getting over a stumbling block naturally and truthfully with your own abilities is so much more satisfying than cheating to get to the end. You will feel better knowing how to actually handle women, rather than lying your way through life. don’t lie to girls
Footnote: Bromigo Bojangles is a big liar, he tells girls he is a Dream Analyser, Refuse Collection Engineer or a Disposable Lighter Engineer. Though the key thing here is that the girls know he’s lying and Bojangles knows they know. There is a difference in outright lies and running with it, and playful white lies when you’re messing around.